Nelson_R32 Posted January 5, 2009 Report Share Posted January 5, 2009 Theres only 1 way to settle this between you and your friend...and that's a mudfight!! Errr I mean you should do what Mollox advised. Phone her up and see if she becomes hesistant or blunt when speaking to her? Like she wants to get you off the phone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tipex Posted January 6, 2009 Report Share Posted January 6, 2009 Yeah, phone her, and ask her advice on the subject, tell her you think he might be cheating but dont know who with, and as she knows him quite well too, does she think he's been acting funny lately! Could be quite comical! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theduisbergkid Posted January 6, 2009 Report Share Posted January 6, 2009 ive text him a few times asking why he's not talking, to which i get no reply. But the stubborn female in me is stopping me from calling him....Grrr Maybe she's let him have the keys to her Cooper ? Seriously though, I really don't like the sound of this at all, your instinct will give you the right answer 9 times out of 10, I'm sorry to say.... Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mook Posted January 6, 2009 Report Share Posted January 6, 2009 If he's not returning your texts or calls, he doesn't want to because he's either too embarrassed or he's feckin you about. Sounds tough, but you might just have to dump him and your best mate and find someone who wants to be with you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cruiser647 Posted January 6, 2009 Report Share Posted January 6, 2009 When's your birthday? And is your friend pretty? Has she got/recently had a boyfriend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted January 6, 2009 Report Share Posted January 6, 2009 Phone her up, all serious like, and tell her that you think your boyfriend has given you chlamydia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chick Posted January 6, 2009 Report Share Posted January 6, 2009 Phone her up, all serious like, and tell her that you think your boyfriend has given you chlamydia :roflmao: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
louboolicious Posted January 6, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 6, 2009 Phone her up, all serious like, and tell her that you think your boyfriend has given you chlamydia I think we've found a winner... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollox Posted January 7, 2009 Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 What's the latest? Have you heard from him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cruiser647 Posted January 7, 2009 Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 I take it you don't live togther then? Does he live with housemates or the such? You could ask them? (subtley) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
louboolicious Posted January 7, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 Well i spoke to her, she's not seen or spoke to him since the day in question! I got a random text from him at 1.30am saying we need to talk and that he'll text me today when he's finished work. The stubborn woman in me is shining through again, because im thinking why should i just jump to talk to him because he now wants to. But then i also know that we do need to talk... I'm also trying to stay calm..don't want to end up running him over. He'd seriously dent the mini. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mook Posted January 7, 2009 Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 He'd seriously dent the mini. Glad you're managing to retain a sense of humour about this. Best of luck with the conversation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollox Posted January 7, 2009 Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 He wants to talk yet he's going to text you? He's confused... Sounds a bit ominous, but chin up, see the funny side and keep us posted! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muppetboy Posted January 7, 2009 Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 Probably going to tell you he's having a sex change Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cruiser647 Posted January 7, 2009 Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 You need to talk - so, the positive side says he stuck on what size ring to buy you for your birthday party............ The other 99% of me says you need to start looking for a new man. Maybe a real one this time...........who doesn't drive a girlie car! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rustynuts Posted January 7, 2009 Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 A real man drives a van. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
louboolicious Posted January 8, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2009 A real man drives a van. i'd never go out with a van man ! haha they're slobs So we met up last night and he basically said he hasnt spoken to me because he knew it was an arguement he wasnt going to win. He was giving me time to "cool off". That he was only with her that day to get her opinion on some bday presents (which they needed to go into town to see..ha) and that he bought her lunch to be polite. Her rendition of events is much the same. So um...maybe i was being paranoid? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mook Posted January 8, 2009 Report Share Posted January 8, 2009 I don't think you're being paranoid - I would probably have reacted in the same way. But I would say that you don't need to punish him or her for this. Tell him he's a silly fecker for dragging it out this long and tell him how it's made you feel - at least you're being open and honest about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollox Posted January 8, 2009 Report Share Posted January 8, 2009 Still smells of fish though...? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted January 8, 2009 Report Share Posted January 8, 2009 Have some good sex and put it all behind you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mook Posted January 8, 2009 Report Share Posted January 8, 2009 Still smells of fish though...? I think you meant to post that in the USA pron bailout thread in the LoJ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brabus Posted January 8, 2009 Report Share Posted January 8, 2009 Still smells of fish though...? Yeah, they've been having it off non-stop since that lunch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tom_hargreaves Posted January 8, 2009 Report Share Posted January 8, 2009 Have some good sex and put it all behind you Literally? He does have a point, and at least he was honest and up front about it. And now you know he hasn't forgotten your birthday! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cruiser647 Posted January 8, 2009 Report Share Posted January 8, 2009 i'd never go out with a van man ! haha they're slobsSo we met up last night and he basically said he hasnt spoken to me because he knew it was an arguement he wasnt going to win. He was giving me time to "cool off". That he was only with her that day to get her opinion on some bday presents (which they needed to go into town to see..ha) and that he bought her lunch to be polite. Her rendition of events is much the same. So um...maybe i was being paranoid? But you knew they were going out to sort your party/presents out? I'd watch him closely. Are either of them behaving differently? Watch what they are like when closeby! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted January 8, 2009 Report Share Posted January 8, 2009 Are either of them behaving differently? Watch what they are like when closeby! Ask for a 3 some? :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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