PinkPrincess Posted January 24, 2009 Report Share Posted January 24, 2009 Just to let you all now why I havent been back on in a while, I have been in hospital as I lost my baby. They thought that it was Ectopic, and would loose my ovary and tube but it wasn't... But I am on the mend, and just recovering over the loss of my baby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CabGirl Posted January 24, 2009 Report Share Posted January 24, 2009 I'm so sorry PP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steve2 Posted January 24, 2009 Report Share Posted January 24, 2009 really sorry to hear that PP,good luck with the recovery Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bazza_g Posted January 24, 2009 Report Share Posted January 24, 2009 Sorry to hear this sad news PP, have moved the thread here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelson_R32 Posted January 24, 2009 Report Share Posted January 24, 2009 Very sad news PP I'm very sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted January 24, 2009 Report Share Posted January 24, 2009 Sorry Pink Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nordberg Posted January 24, 2009 Report Share Posted January 24, 2009 Been there.....and it ain't nice. Feel free to PM me if you need any advice on the coming weeks/months... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Tone_ Posted January 24, 2009 Report Share Posted January 24, 2009 Sorry to hear this! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tipex Posted January 25, 2009 Report Share Posted January 25, 2009 Sad time for you, but it will get better. Been there before so I can kinda understand it from a male perspective. Best wishes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calm Chris Posted January 25, 2009 Report Share Posted January 25, 2009 I so sorry to hear about your bad news. Unfortunately these things happen- my brother and wife lost the 1st 4 they conceived due to her body not allowing her to carry full term. Turned out she had some sort of hormone imbalance and once that was sorted she went full term x 3 in 4 years. You must be devastated. Try to console yourself with the logic that mother nature works in (seemingly) odd ways and that there's always next time. Cherish the one you have, time will heal the sorrow of your recent event and hopefully everything will be fine the next time you conceive. Huge Chri5 hug, take care Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cruiser647 Posted January 25, 2009 Report Share Posted January 25, 2009 Sorry to hear this PP! Having 3 great daughters and not been through it, I cannot begin t imagine what you are going through. Hope all around you are as strong as you. Take care, take it easy and you are young enough to try again when you feel the time is right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saab Posted January 25, 2009 Report Share Posted January 25, 2009 sorry to hear your sad news x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patently Posted January 25, 2009 Report Share Posted January 25, 2009 Same happened to my sister-in-law during her first pregancy; so sorry to hear that you've had to go through this, too. She is now the proud mother of two fine lads, btw... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muppetboy Posted January 25, 2009 Report Share Posted January 25, 2009 Sorry to hear this, stay strong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonC Posted January 25, 2009 Report Share Posted January 25, 2009 A similar situation happened to my sister-in-law last year. The chances of the child being born with Down Syndrome were very high. I'm proud to say that she's now the proud mother of her second daughter. As MB says, hang in there and be strong. You'll have your day. All the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lesK Posted January 25, 2009 Report Share Posted January 25, 2009 I'm very sorry to hear this PP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tarmac_Terrorist Posted January 25, 2009 Report Share Posted January 25, 2009 I'm very sorry to hear this. You must all be devastated. It's clearly something that you will never forget but hopefully time will help heal some pain. Perhaps now, that doesn't seem possible though. As already said, try to be strong and remain positive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theduisbergkid Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Sorry to hear this PP, hope you're coping OK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garcon magnifique Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Sad news PP, but be strong and don't let it put you off trying again - you're young and (hopefully!) healthy so time is on your side. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulboy Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 I hope you start to feel better soon PP. And make sure you and your other half look after each other. My girlfriend lost ours last April. Unfortunately, it was only a few weeks before we were due to get married and she went downhill and cancelled the wedding. We ended up splitting up in June. Funny thing is, I know everything would have been fine if she had not lost the baby. So look after each other! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkPrincess Posted January 26, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 So sorry to hear that Soulboy It doesnt help that I lost one in September - Now they are looking into what the problem could be. Its been suggested that I may have a hormone inbalance when carry boys. So i will have to wait and see. I have also been made redundant which doesnt help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzbitt Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Sympathies PP.. my cousin has been trying for the last 15 years and has lost 4 before birth and so kinda know the score. As said... if your young and healthy you have time on your side. Soulboy - thats devisting bro. Hope you are getting through it the best you can man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulboy Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 (edited) The thing is, miscarriage is incredibly common, we all know that - but it doesn't make it any easier for the mother when it happens. And also everyone saying that they know people who had it happen to them, but they have since had x children no problem. My g/f told me that thats what annoyed/upset her the most as she had still lost that baby. Her baby. So I suspect that is the case with you too PP? And sorry to hear about the job too PP. Like all these things, you get over them one day at a time. Having led a pretty uneventful life for the previous 20 years, I haven't now had a single year since 2004 when I have not had at least one major disaster or other (relationships fail/divorce/armed robbery/witness to a murder/4 house moves/miscarriage/non wedding etc etc etc)....but I am a positive person and I always bounce back....although sometimes its difficult. This was the thread when we split up http://www.tyresmoke.net/forum/agony-aunt/109763-down-out-again.html But I am here and smiling and enjoying life again and things are looking up. I am a bit older, bit wiser, but even though all the recent knocks have taken there toll - I know I am a better person for it - and I like and respect myself more than I used to. Edited January 26, 2009 by Soulboy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lottiefox Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 PP I'm sorry you're having a tough time and I hope things look up. No quick way to get over things like this, take one day at a time and be kind to yourself and each other. SB, I had no idea that you and Mel had split up. Not been on tsn very much over the past year, but things had seemed so good. Hope you are still on the up and staying positive! (as I am SURE you are!!!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cruiser647 Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 So sorry to hear that Soulboy It doesnt help that I lost one in September - Now they are looking into what the problem could be. Its been suggested that I may have a hormone inbalance when carry boys. So i will have to wait and see. I have also been made redundant which doesnt help As a positive, the time at home might help you recover, both physically and mentally without the day job in the way. You, new hubbie and kiddy can spend some good time together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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