AZURES3 Posted May 2, 2006 Report Share Posted May 2, 2006 Well after 8 days of heart ache and hell my wife left with her suitcases this morning. The house instantly felt empty and I could smell her perfumes etc so much, odd. I think I am going to have a very tough month ahead of me. Atleast the summer is ahead rather than winter. AZ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparky Posted May 2, 2006 Report Share Posted May 2, 2006 Feeling for you mate. That must be very tough to deal with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted May 2, 2006 Report Share Posted May 2, 2006 Will certainly be a low time in your life, but as you say, the sun will come up again tomorrow and when you're ready you'll move on. All the best Dave Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TP27 Posted May 2, 2006 Report Share Posted May 2, 2006 Our collective thoughts are with you, keep the chin up and stay positive....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saab Posted May 2, 2006 Report Share Posted May 2, 2006 Sorry to hear it mate. If you can avoid it try to get out of the house and spend time with friends and family - otherwise you'll just sit around at home feeling miserable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shark_90 Posted May 2, 2006 Report Share Posted May 2, 2006 We're all here for you mate. All the best Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AZURES3 Posted May 2, 2006 Author Report Share Posted May 2, 2006 [ QUOTE ] We're all here for you mate. All the best [/ QUOTE ] AZ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hector-8 Posted May 2, 2006 Report Share Posted May 2, 2006 stay positive mate,all the best Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Posted May 2, 2006 Report Share Posted May 2, 2006 That's really bad news, sorry mate. Only thing I can add is that it might get worse, but it will eventually get better... Best of luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chav Posted May 2, 2006 Report Share Posted May 2, 2006 Yeh, best of luck mate!! Things will get better - quite a few of us have been there and come out the other side! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lottiefox Posted May 2, 2006 Report Share Posted May 2, 2006 It's a cliche and it never ever seems like it at the time, but time does heal and you will come out the other side. Just go with how you feel - feeling sad and crap is totally normal and to be expected but focus on the future and keep in touch with mates and family and you'll come through it, and the sun will be out again and life will be good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malagus Posted May 3, 2006 Report Share Posted May 3, 2006 all the best mate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyD Posted May 3, 2006 Report Share Posted May 3, 2006 Sorry to hear that Az. I'm a great believer of "everything happens for a reason" so just bear that in mind (if you can) and keep going mate. Things can only get better. All the best, T Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wallachie Posted May 3, 2006 Report Share Posted May 3, 2006 I feel for you buddy, but the worst is now over and it should only get better from now on. Spend some time with your mates, go out and have a laugh with them, hopefully they'll help you through it all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Problem_Child Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 Couldn't agree more. After I split with my wife (her decision, not mine) I've been to Le Mans and Reading Festival (she wouldn't camp), been Zorb Balling, travelled all over the country seeing friends and now I'm going paragliding and planning a round the world trip. Like I said in your earlier thread this isn't the end, just the beginning of a new chapter. You'll feel for a while mate, but it does get better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danksy Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 Az... sorry to hear this mate, but like other people have said. You WILL get through this. Family and Friends can be of huge support at times like this. There will probably be worst days ahead, but you will come out of it the other side. Good luck mate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
collease Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 Sad to here it Az. Keep your chin up and life will fall into place. you will see Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insurance Jon Posted May 4, 2006 Report Share Posted May 4, 2006 Whens the party then?.......just in the interests of cheering you up old bean. I split up with my mrs for 6 months last year and I loved it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FuntimeFrankie Posted May 5, 2006 Report Share Posted May 5, 2006 Hope things get better for you soon AZ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dadstoys Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Yeh, best of luck mate!! Things will get better - quite a few of us have been there and come out the other side! [/ QUOTE ] Agreed. And then the fun starts !!! On a more serious note - its crap at the beginning, but then you get used to it, start going out a bit more, and before long you wonder why you got upset in the first place. Then its not long before you see the ex and think Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeA2B Posted May 11, 2006 Report Share Posted May 11, 2006 Keep yourself buzy Az, I know how you are feeling as I am going through the same sh1t, make the most of your freedom and try and enjoy your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baggy Posted May 12, 2006 Report Share Posted May 12, 2006 I'm there too. It's good (in a way) to know you're not alone and there are others feeling the same. My wife told me she didn't love me any more on Tuesday night. I knew it was coming but it was the worst moment of my life. I've been a mess ever since, I have never cried so much. I can't stand the thought of life without her, I'll miss her so much. We're still living in the same house, which is very wierd because things feel very "normal". Separate beds though which I'm finding very tought. I am going to find somewhere to rent ASAP, I need to get away. It's good to hear from some of you guys that there is life after marriage, it just doesn't feel that way right now. We have a two year old daughter which makes things far more difficult and complicated, but at least I can focus on what is most important, my daughter's happiness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chav Posted May 12, 2006 Report Share Posted May 12, 2006 Hi Baggy. Living together whilst "apart" is awful - feel for you mate! Make sure you get to see your daughter often, and she'll grow up fine! Doesn't matter what anyone does, you'll always be her dad! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saab Posted May 12, 2006 Report Share Posted May 12, 2006 Sorry to hear it Baggy - must be a horrible situation. This happened to my parents when I was 9 and my father refused to move out for 2 years - it was dreadful and I hope that you and your wife can deal with things in a fairly amicable way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baggy Posted May 12, 2006 Report Share Posted May 12, 2006 Thanks for the sympathy guys, it's such a tough time, but I do know I'll get through it. So far this is fairy amicable and we are going to split my daughters time 50/50 between us which I know will be the best thing for her. It's going to hit me hard because I only work 3 days a week so spend four solid days with her at the moment, but I'm going to have to go back full time for financial reasons. I just want to wind the clock forwards so it's all sorted, or backwards to better times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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