s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Well, if you read my psot in the LOJ about the total randomness, you'll know what I'm on about. This girl is engaged but should I try and or just walk away? She's extremely hot and funny and we get along great. Just wondering if I should do something before I move job and don't see her again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DHA Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Well she did lead you on a bit but before you do, consider it if she was engaged to you and someone at her work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calm Chris Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Fine if she is a 'good time' girl, but there is an issue of morals . No doubt her other half would consider his engagement as the marriage proposal it is. So ask yourself how you'd feel if you were he . On the other hand, she might be the sort that holds no real 'stay' regarding being engaged or even about being unfaithful. If she simply wants a night of lust and you both will walk away after, then it's down to your conscience . Since willies don't have much of a conscience, you might need to consider how heavy is her fiance. If he's a local face, 18 stone and smiles, when being beaten by 6 skin heads, I think caution would be best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Darn, why does my love life have to be so complicated. My back up plan got married last year so I have no back up plan My best mate is going out with a guy who hates me for other reasons This girl is perfect for me though. Liks the same things I do. Looks at girls boobs and says things like 'Are they nicer than mine?' and lifts up her top in the office or the car or anywhere. Her fiance is a nice guy. Only met him once or twice. Could kick his ass if need be but there's a daughter involved, albeit from a previous relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzbitt Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 yeah.. she sounds like marriage material alright.. lol Think about it mate... Girls like that aint fit for marrage unless they change and even then they have to 'want to change' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [ QUOTE ] yeah.. she sounds like marriage material alright.. lol Think about it mate... Girls like that aint fit for marrage unless they change and even then they have to 'want to change' [/ QUOTE ] Nah, she's great but I couldn't marry her. First of all, my mum would disapprove. I have to marry a girl of the same relgion, race, colour and all that stuff. second of all, she's older than me and she's Catholic so our views on religion and life are a bit at loggerheads. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesB Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Hmm, I wouldn’t do it myself as I’d hate to be in the fiancé’s shoes. I’d also be wary of considering her the perfect girl for me – if she is indeed willing to leap in the sack with you when she is engaged to someone else, she doesn’t exactly sound trustworthy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Argh, my head hurts. It's the age old dilemma of 'to bone or not to bone, that the question' If I did then it wouldn't matter as I'm leaving there but I'd see people from the office as it's about 5min from my house. If I didn't then I'd spend ages thinking what it would be like if I did. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattchaps Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Just do it What have you got to lose? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Erm, a good mate. A few of the girls in the office are really good mates now. Jus don't want to feck it all up with everyone there if I ever ended up dealing with the company again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calm Chris Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [quote but I couldn't marry her. First of all, my mum would disapprove. I have to marry a girl of the same religion, race, colour and all that stuff. second of all, she's older than me and she's Catholic so our views on religion and life are a bit at loggerheads. [/ QUOTE ] Jesus, how old are you [ QUOTE ] my mum would disapprove [/ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] have to marry a girl of the same religion [/ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] have to marry a girl of the same race [/ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] have to marry a girl of the same colour [/ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] she's older than me and she's Catholic so our views on religion and life are a bit at loggerheads [/ QUOTE ] But she's got great titz and makes you horny. Word to the wise, your life is yours, feck the cultural, religious and family issues. You live in the UK not some provincial Asian town where you'd be stoned to death for daring to do different to the families wishes. Screw her and try to unscrew your odd morality. One which makes it ok to play with someones elses betrothed, but immoral to go against the wishes of your mum How bizarre Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [ QUOTE ] my mum would disapprove [/ QUOTE ] I stay with my mum and she's the one I would have to keep happy. My dad died 10 years ago so it's just me and my mum now. My bro is married and so is my sis. My uncle married an irish catholic and ended up getting divorced after 4 years. By the way, I'm an Indian Sikh and will end having an arranged marriage for those who didn't know. [ QUOTE ] have to marry a girl of the same religion [/ QUOTE ] Again, see above. [ QUOTE ] have to marry a girl of the same race [/ QUOTE ] See above. [ QUOTE ] have to marry a girl of the same colour [/ QUOTE ] See above. [ QUOTE ] she's older than me and she's Catholic so our views on religion and life are a bit at loggerheads [/ QUOTE ] See above. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattchaps Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 How long since your last Now does it seem a little more tempting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [ QUOTE ] How long since your last Now does it seem a little more tempting [/ QUOTE ] Hmm, 2 months. Now that's a good point. Would it be as bad if I get 'pleasure from the mouth' instead or boning her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shark_90 Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Steer clear, you may end up in a whole load of shite. I'm going through the aftermath of an affair with one of my best mates at the moment and I feel so sorry for him. Really, just steer clear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattchaps Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [ QUOTE ] Hmm, 2 months. Now that's a good point. Would it be as bad if I get 'pleasure from the mouth' instead or boning her? [/ QUOTE ] If you're happy with that, go for it... although I'm sure it will only lead to more anyway! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] Hmm, 2 months. Now that's a good point. Would it be as bad if I get 'pleasure from the mouth' instead or boning her? [/ QUOTE ] If you're happy with that, go for it... although I'm sure it will only lead to more anyway! [/ QUOTE ] That's the thing. After next week. I might not see her again. Will be going to new job across Glasgow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattchaps Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Hmm, if you're sure she's up for it, I think i'd give it a go. Just make sure it's a no strings thing! You'll only be thinking "what if..." if you don't Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzbitt Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Stay away bud.. this is personally speaking. I was in pretty much the same situation apart from the fact that she wasnt as 'in your face' as the lass you have described. Im also of Asian origin so know the culture thing as well.. lets just say that i wish i had left right alone.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Dammit, she's off next week on holiday so it's today tomorrow and friday left to decide or see what happens. Will sit back and see. If anything does happen then I won't try to stop it. If nothing happens then nothing happens. I'll only do something if it 'falls in my lap' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzbitt Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 also you aint got Friday unless your working Good Friday... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 We're working. Off on Monday. I'll keep you updated on the outcome of the next few days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzbitt Posted April 4, 2007 Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [ QUOTE ] We're working. Off on Monday. I'll keep you updated on the outcome of the next few days. [/ QUOTE ] have you read what i wrote at the end of page 2? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] We're working. Off on Monday. I'll keep you updated on the outcome of the next few days. [/ QUOTE ] have you read what i wrote at the end of page 2? [/ QUOTE ] Yeah, I'll not try to instigate anything. I'll just leave it as it is for the now. If anything happens then I'll have to play it by ear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4_sat Posted April 4, 2007 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2007 Dammit, she jus walked in to work with a tight white Tshirt and no bra!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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