Thorburn Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 In the local crap hole, the open bar in town thats open after 11pm. There is this stunning girl next to me and I am 100% convinced I know her. "I'm sure I know you" I say, and after a little conversation it turns out that she went to primary school with me and that I was her first major crush, funny since I used to have a major crush on her too! We're talking for a little bit, joking, flirting, she even said "thats so weird, we should get married or something" (and at this point I probably would have)..... finally I ask for her number..... A slightly angry looking bloke who I recognise from secondary school (and who is a total t0sser) comes over and gives me a really evil stare. That'll be her boyfriend then So to quote No Doubt, "Why do the good girls, always want the bad boys?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ian_m Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 Ahhhh I see your first mistake, dont EVER try to understand the mind of a woman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rustynuts Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 You made a start, and she's interested, so just work on getting to know her a little more every time you see her. And just remember, if this bloke's going to give you a kicking for pinching his bird, might as well be sooner rather than later and get it over with. However, the bit about "we should get married or something" scares the hell out of me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danksy Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 Everything thats already been said [ QUOTE ] And just remember, if this bloke's going to give you a kicking for pinching his bird, might as well be sooner rather than later and get it over with. [/ QUOTE ] If he does lay a finger on you, his ass could be sued, so as well as getting the symapathy vote from said girl, you might have enough cash from compensation to pay for the repairs you've just forked out for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeilB Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 Hey, keep on trying. No harm in staying mates and been a shoulder to cry on if it all goes wrong with tosspot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 Tell me about it Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 Go for it mate, I would. Obviuosly she's interested else she would of cut you short early into the conversation. Don't rush into it, but work slowly and something might develop. Have confidence in yourself.. what have you got to lose?. If you don't speak to her again, nothing will come of it. If you do, nothing might come of it.. BUT something might That's the attitude i use nowdays.. if you didn't try.. you only live to regret it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 Ok folks.. maybe i should start a new post too... im in a bigger situation I`ll think about it.... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MOSE Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 JT, if the guy is a tosser, then he will always be a tosser. PLenty a good woman is lost to a bloke like this and inevitably, she wont hang around for very long if he rens a tosser. So like others say, keep in there but take it SLOW!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 [ QUOTE ] JT, if the guy is a tosser, then he will always be a tosser. PLenty a good woman is lost to a bloke like this and inevitably, she wont hang around for very long if he rens a tosser. So like others say, keep in there but take it SLOW!! [/ QUOTE ]Yes but then shes classed as having a affair isnt she? some people dont realise the whole situation.. i dunno.. im so lost these days I too think you should go for it JT. As ive been told many times, good men and women are hard to come by! All the best dude Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorburn Posted October 16, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 I don't think its something I can really 'go for', its the first time I've seen her in 10 or 11 years and I think it was just a chance encounter really, I live a good hours drive from here at the moment (and that an hour at about 2am, bad traffic and it can be over 2 hours easily). The odds of seeing her again are pretty slim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 [ QUOTE ] I don't think its something I can really 'go for', its the first time I've seen her in 10 or 11 years and I think it was just a chance encounter really, I live a good hours drive from here at the moment (and that an hour at about 2am, bad traffic and it can be over 2 hours easily). The odds of seeing her again are pretty slim [/ QUOTE ]Fight the odd`s Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rustynuts Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 Feck it, man. You've not given up already have you? Make a move man, don't think of an hours drive as a problem. I thought you liked driving anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeilB Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 No harm in staying in touch with her, go for it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewNiceMrMe Posted October 16, 2005 Report Share Posted October 16, 2005 [ QUOTE ] Go for it mate, I would. Obviuosly she's interested else she would of cut you short early into the conversation. Don't rush into it, but work slowly and something might develop. Have confidence in yourself.. what have you got to lose?. If you don't speak to her again, nothing will come of it. If you do, nothing might come of it.. BUT something might That's the attitude i use nowdays.. if you didn't try.. you only live to regret it. [/ QUOTE ] JT, I think Dave's post above says it all. Just because she's 'with' someone doesn't mean she's happy and unable to see the possibilities of life with someone else. Life....short, impossible to rewind, a one-way route and......yours to do what you want with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tomk Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 one thing you did not say..... did you get her phone number ??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorburn Posted October 29, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 29, 2005 Got half of it, then her blokey stopped her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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