skifly Posted October 24, 2005 Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 ok guys - need some advice here, but feel free to call me whatever you want as i know this is pretty lame compared to Pag / Riz etc... had a little party at the weekend and later in the night a friend who i am not really attracted to decided to kip in my room as all other beds / sofas were taken. Well lets just say that she may have been led on by some of my drunken behaviour which started with my blatent comment of "you realise there is a dress code for my bed" - you can see where this was leading - and she kindly observed said dress code. Anyways things didnt progress as far as it could have done (may have something to do with falling asleep on her twice) (not literally) but my dilemma comes that she works at the same place as another girl i like a hell of a lot. She is currently in the same situation as the bird Riz is currently worrying over - only i havent been as 'close' with her as it sounds like Riz has. So how do i get past this dilemma as i am sure the girl that stayed in my room will be wanting to see more of me (not in that way as she already had a brief tour) and that may get around at her work as they all know me hence spoiling any possible chance that the girl with the boyfriend will get rid of her nasty bloke and see me as suitable... rather than the drunken sleazy bar steward that i am!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Posted October 24, 2005 Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 [ QUOTE ] hence spoiling any possible chance that the girl with the boyfriend will get rid of her nasty bloke and see me as suitable... [/ QUOTE ] Why? She's seeing someone, why should she expect you not to? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randellp Posted October 24, 2005 Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 Skifly - you are clearly a classy charmer and a complete studmuffin. You were simply just exercising your rights as host, and fair play to you. I really like the "Dress Code" line, that's a classic! Don't bother "checking yourself into the self respect clinic" (a bizarre phrase coined by my mate who used to have to visit a lot on a Sunday morning) and enjoy the fact you're young, free and single. As for worries about Ms wrong, she might find out that you aren't just a sympathetic ear and a shoulder to cry on (The "brother" thing, which is often how girls feel about you when they open up about their personal issues), but actually can and do get it on with the ladies. Thus in her eyes you become more of a sexual being in her eyes, and she will come running. It can only do you good! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skifly Posted October 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 well miss "i have a bloke" already knows my intent as a while ago she split up with her bloke and i made my move - she is a bit younger than me though and still quite scared to be without the only bloke she has ever had a proper relationship with hence she wouldnt let anything happen. And that included giving me her phone number!! But i can get to see her at her work most time i head in there so not to worry too much! As for the studmuffin comment - doesnt seem like that at the moment!!! Dont seem to be able to get much attention in that department at the moment. Although thinking about it i did end up helping another girl eat her cheesecake the fun way... but it was all very friendly and that is well known!! Still was great seeing three girls kissing at the same time. Will dig out the pic as i am sure you will all appreciate it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pincher Posted October 24, 2005 Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 Haven't got a solution to your problem - sorry. Where's that pic, it's been nearly an hour!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randellp Posted October 24, 2005 Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 Keep carrying on like that you'll have few cares in that department in no time, don't worry! Could do with some piccies for my own "analysis" though... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skifly Posted October 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 my worry is putting them on the net as a couple of them have been on the site for a look before... does that bother anyone else? - actually that has to be about the stupidest question i have ever asked esp after telling you about the pics! Doh! Righty - will upload some from my phone tomorrow at work (dont have IR or bluetooth on home machine!!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted October 24, 2005 Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 Mmmm be wise dude and keep focused, take peoples comments as advise only and form your own conclusions etc.... People cannot "feel" for the situation and understand it from a 3rd party perspective..... Riz *right time to update my post..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skifly Posted October 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 have to admit neo even though i do put a veneer on these things it does bother me and i could relate to a hell of a lot of what you said in your posts from various experiences i have had over the last year or so. The last 18 months have caused considerable stress in that area of my life especially as i am the sort to take things to heart a bit too much even if that is not the impression i may give. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted October 24, 2005 Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 [ QUOTE ] have to admit neo even though i do put a veneer on these things it does bother me and i could relate to a hell of a lot of what you said in your posts from various experiences i have had over the last year or so. The last 18 months have caused considerable stress in that area of my life especially as i am the sort to take things to heart a bit too much even if that is not the impression i may give. [/ QUOTE ]Ditto... im like that also.... im too touchy touchy feely feely..... but when change who you are? Just take time to think about things..... eventhough it might not solve the issues it does help alitte... And its always best to talk about it, rather than bottle it up... works wonders. Mmmm dont know what more to say really...... Life isnt simple but dont let it get you down..... It would be safe to say that perhaps i suffer from a mild case of depression, alot of work stress ontop of my feelings for this lady kind of mess the head alittle... Be strong and keep your head up high.... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skifly Posted October 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 its only ever somethign that properly bothers me when i have one of those "where's life going" type thinking sessions rather than getting out and enjoying life. Still i have the best way to clear my head - problem is i can only waterski jump during the summer!!!! If you let other stuff into your head you can almost guarantee to crash and get hurt... still driving the GTI seems to have a similar effect!!! love it - actually think i may head out for a quick spin now! as someone said to Pag earlier adrenaline sports defo help get thrills you sometimes need to give you a boost! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted October 24, 2005 Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 [ QUOTE ] its only ever somethign that properly bothers me when i have one of those "where's life going" type thinking sessions rather than getting out and enjoying life. Still i have the best way to clear my head - problem is i can only waterski jump during the summer!!!! If you let other stuff into your head you can almost guarantee to crash and get hurt... still driving the GTI seems to have a similar effect!!! love it - actually think i may head out for a quick spin now! [/ QUOTE ]I get these moments very often.... life life life..... the lady i have feelings for has helped me, she has given my inner strength but also her situation is hurting me at the same time.... bummer eh! Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skifly Posted October 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2005 swings and roundabouts my friend!! thats what makes life so much fun at times - now out for the drive then a cuppa before bed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skifly Posted October 25, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2005 here is a very sexy tattoo on a very sexy ozzie bird Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skifly Posted October 25, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2005 ahh... not quite the photo i was after as the true lady lover wasnt joining in but it will have to do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skifly Posted October 25, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2005 cheeky... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Posted October 25, 2005 Report Share Posted October 25, 2005 [ QUOTE ] ahh... not quite the photo i was after as the true lady lover wasnt joining in but it will have to do [/ QUOTE ] My, you have got a big clock! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skifly Posted October 25, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2005 why thank you ari... i seem to have a bit of a problem with my clock at the moment - the hands dont seem to go round it properly... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Posted October 25, 2005 Report Share Posted October 25, 2005 Speak to Dave, he'll give you some ointment for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insurance Jon Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] ahh... not quite the photo i was after as the true lady lover wasnt joining in but it will have to do [/ QUOTE ] My, you have got a big clock! [/ QUOTE ] carefull ari I'm not fully awake yet and miss read that at first! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brabus Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 [ QUOTE ] "you realise there is a dress code for my bed" [/ QUOTE ] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tomk Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 i hope that only applies to letting women in your bed ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tomk Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 oh and you have also managed to tell all of us you sleep naked .... ugh thanks for that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skifly Posted October 26, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 dont get too excited tom - it was just a comment for the occasion - but now you bring up my sleeping attire it is usually boxers like most blokes!! Plus the dress code stands - just blokes are never allowed in my bed no matter how well i know them...! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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