Thorburn Posted February 5, 2006 Report Share Posted February 5, 2006 A month or two after I split up with Nicki I fell for another girl, a friend from college called Alicia. We were getting on well until Nicki came back and being an utter idiot I took her back and finished things with Liss. Me and Nicki at this point lasted a month, and a stressful one at that, I don't talk to her anymore because frankly, I hate her. But Liss is seeing someone and has been for about 18 months now, but do I tell her how I feel or keep quiet? I don't want to scare her off but I know her relationship isn't going great and care for her a hell of a lot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparky Posted February 5, 2006 Report Share Posted February 5, 2006 Tricky one mate. I'd not go in there and tell her immediately. It may make you look desperate and could push her away. However, I'd not sit on your feelings. Perhaps you could go out for a casual drink with her to gauge how she is with you? Any signs that she might still like you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MOSE Posted February 5, 2006 Report Share Posted February 5, 2006 Thats a tough one mate and am not entirely sure what is wrong or right to say here. As you have already been in a relationship with Liss, only you and her know how well you got on with each other, and how much you trusted one another.....so in essence you already know the boundaries. If she is having a rough time in her current relationship, then personally I do not see any harm in maybe pouncing on whatever given opportunity you can to ask her outright how things are and take things as they come from there. It maywell be that she has feelings for you as well, but if this is the case, I am sure that things will materialise from there. Best to take things a little at a time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scotty Posted February 5, 2006 Report Share Posted February 5, 2006 Move on to someone else. If she was that special you wouldn't have given her up last time. You proved going back over old ground doesn't work with Nicki. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarMad Posted February 6, 2006 Report Share Posted February 6, 2006 I'd have to agree with Scotty. If she was great.. you wouldn't or should I say shouldn't have left her the first time around. She is going to have lots of trust issues if you do get back togeather which aren't going to be easy to get past in the short term. Do you want to get back with her because its an easy option or because you really want to be with her. Caring for someone is one thing... having thoughts that you potentially want to spend the rest of your life with someone is another thing. Just think in your own head what you really want, cause I know I wouldn't want someone to come back to me after being dumped once. But if you feel really strong about it, go for it and if she tells you where to go you will have your answer really quickly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChadW Posted February 6, 2006 Report Share Posted February 6, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Just think in your own head what you really want [/ QUOTE ] that'll be a threesome then, and then dump em both and get a totally brand new gf, easy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BenjaminTDI Posted February 6, 2006 Report Share Posted February 6, 2006 If she's been with someone for 18 months then it sounds like she's moved on. If you really like her, and you know you want to be with her for a considerable amount of time then go for it, if you don't ask you don't get. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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