RedRobin Posted September 25, 2006 Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 I'm full of venom! Venting here will hopefully make me feel better! As posted elsewhere on TSN: Journey to Germany, I now find that my ex won't take our daughter for the one day overlap in case (!!!!) her boyfriend asks her to go away with him during a 4 day holiday break she has from work (part-time work) . Her bf relationship is on/off continually and my daughter really doesn't like him. Normally the ex has been fine about arrangements to suit all three of us (parents plus daughter), but this time it's "Why are you going?....Who with?....Who's she?" - WTF! It's none of her biz! Though I didn't say that. The Bavarian lady I'm travelling with is a good friend and married to a great guy who is also a friend and I'm just giving her a free lift to see her mum, but I've let the ex think/imagine whatever she wants, just because of her uncooperative attitude. This is almost repeat behaviour of the time during our divorce between decrees when I was invited over to the States as a guest of honour at an Indian Pow Wow. I discussed taking our daughter and my ex had the gall to ask if she could also come!! When I reminded her that we were divorcing (on the grounds of her adultery) and said no, she then said I couldn't take our daughter (12yo at the time). So, me being me (I rarely give up), I put my matrimonial solicitor on the case....It went to local court (private hearing) and the magistrate politely told my ex not to waste everyone's time and gave me appropriate written permissions - It cost me £700! The ex tried to convince the court that I would kidnap our daughter! Yeah, I could be very difficult to find amongst my Indian friends for quite a while but eventually I would be found. Anyway, wouldn't my daughter have a say in this!? Daughter is cool about me going and would have loved to come with me but has GCSE mocks and it's been totally her decision not to come. I'll find a way - I usually do! Weird isn't it - You get through a divorce and preserve on-speaking-terms relations and each parent is focussed on the shared child....You mellow over the stuff you detested about your ex and even forget about all the sh!t....But, of course, they haven't changed! Still, I'm not going to let this interfere with my daughter's peace of mind and I'll just continue as if nothing happened - Just a note to self about ex being an effing bitch - Mobile phone contact name now changed to "Effing Bitch!". I made a mistake by marrying that piece of work. The only good thing from it is the children. Good riddance! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotdog Posted September 25, 2006 Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 ...........and relax!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ritey Posted September 25, 2006 Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 Pick up the pipe and play Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamD Posted September 25, 2006 Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Pick up the pipe and play [/ QUOTE ] Just don't go out in the car! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Golfer Posted September 25, 2006 Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 Open the bottle ,have a little and "chill". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rs32 Posted September 25, 2006 Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 good to let it out Robin - hope you can find a way around the situation Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted September 25, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 No worries, guys - I just needed to vent. Have just had a little toot on the flute . My daughter brought home Dandy Warhols CD borrowed overnight from a school mate. I don't drink any alcohol. I think I've just worked out a solution so I can still go to Berlin. Tomorrow will tell. Cheers and Thanx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted September 25, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 Rich, have you heard the first three tracks on that Dandy Warhols album? Pretty solid production! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rustynuts Posted September 25, 2006 Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 [ QUOTE ] I don't drink any alcohol. [/ QUOTE ] I don't understand. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted September 25, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] I don't drink any alcohol. [/ QUOTE ] I don't understand. [/ QUOTE ] ....Just in response to audijohn suggesting I open a bottle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danksy Posted September 25, 2006 Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 He doesn't understand WHY you dont drink alcohol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted September 25, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 ....It's a long story but not due to me ever having any problems with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lottiefox Posted September 25, 2006 Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 And the crux of the matter Robin.........you have let the ex wife imagine that you might be off with another woman......and even though she has no interest in you at all, and its long done history, you've planted that seed...so she will decide to be an efffing b***h just to be fecking awkward and scupper your time away with this perceived Lolita!!!!! If you'd said you were going with a bunch of GTi driving blokes - I don't think the problem would have ever arisen! Ah - how well I understand neurotic women. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted September 25, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 ....Such a perspective can only belong to someone from another planet! [referring to the ex]. I've now sorted out a solution with my daughter's approval so it's just a matter of putting it under the witch's nose tomorrow. Cheers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesB Posted September 25, 2006 Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 Send the TSN posse round to give the mufu ho a good bitch-slapping. <font color="#666666"> Metaphorically speaking, of course. </font> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted September 25, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 ....Cheers but I wouldn't wish contact on even my enemies . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesB Posted September 25, 2006 Report Share Posted September 25, 2006 Yes, but we would only be doing it metaphorically. Ultimately it might just involve some lively debate and a bit of mild name-calling over a nice cup of Horlicks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulboy Posted September 26, 2006 Report Share Posted September 26, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Mobile phone contact name now changed to "Effing Bitch!". [/ QUOTE ] ........and dont forget to change her ringtone to a cow or something suitable Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted September 26, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 26, 2006 ....But I like four-legged cows! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calm Chris Posted September 26, 2006 Report Share Posted September 26, 2006 [ QUOTE ] ....But I like four-legged cows! [/ QUOTE ] Worried of North London Isn't there a medical term for that, Welsh syndrome- Baaa, Baaa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Golfer Posted September 26, 2006 Report Share Posted September 26, 2006 [ QUOTE ] And the crux of the matter Robin.........you have let the ex wife imagine that you might be off with another woman......and even though she has no interest in you at all, and its long done history, you've planted that seed...so she will decide to be an efffing b***h just to be fecking awkward and scupper your time away with this perceived Lolita!!!!! If you'd said you were going with a bunch of GTi driving blokes - I don't think the problem would have ever arisen! Ah - how well I understand neurotic women. [/ QUOTE ] You are so right Lottie, that little seed does the damage do, he thinks it will be easy so F**k him too. you do indeed understand neurotic women! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted September 27, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 27, 2006 Easy solution found....I'm off to Berlin and also the sacred birthplace of my VeeDub --------------------- If you would like to hear some different music while on TSN or your computer, check out my radio station and just click the big play-button at: http://iacmusic.com/station.aspx?stationid=2953 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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