Jump to content

work life balance and the big 'V' day!!


skifly
 Share

Recommended Posts

Ok - sod this work life balance stuff. How can anyone manage to fit in sorting stuff like presents for Valentines day for t'other half when they work stupid hours and away all week. The regular day is 8am --> 7:30pm in Edinburgh with a flight up the early hours of monday, returning on friday...!!

So does anyone have any great ideas that I can preferably either pick up at the airport or order online from the hotel so i dont return empty handed on thursday eve?

Opinions and ideas welcome but here are a few to kick off the discussion / get opinions??

- handbag / purse from the airport? Ideas on whats good to look for?

- a trip down towards the cotswolds (any ideas great places to stay, probably with little village, pub etc but not in one of the larger cities?)

- Some sort of spa treatment as she doesnt do the obvious flowers / make-up routine!!

Well - hopefully someone can help otherwise it looks like no 123576-assfeck.gif for me for a while!! NOT that that is what it is all about ladies!! heart.gif also has a rather large part in this one!

Cheers - Chris

Link to comment
Share on other sites

unfortunately I cant get back weds nite - i have a CRP session on thursday morning but would have loved to have made the gesture...

I am flying Edinburgh to city on thursday so would have to pick something up this end.

Will take a look at the hotel DHA - I reckon it might be worth trying to book something for this, although it was a consideration some time soon for a trip away.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Something she gets on the actual day - a card and a conversation would do me, and tell her that you miss her. grin.gif

When you get back, something a bit individual maybe, what sort of jewelry does she wear/like - this can be kept for years to come...voucher for a treatment at a beauty place maybe near to her, what about something you can do together like a hot air balloon trip or something nice? 169144-ok.gif

Link to comment
Share on other sites

the hot air balloon trip sounds like an idea - esp as she knows i am not a fan of heights!!

She has never worn any jewelery since i have known her and has given very specific instructions that if she is ever bought anything in particular (partially testing the water i think) that it would have to be a very good choice and i would probably need her sisters help!!

I have to admit i am never a fan of flowers. I have her 2 cards, one to go to work and one for here, but i havent even managed to find a post box today, so hopefully RM are being good and can get me a delivery to central london by weds!!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I think in honesty, to me anyway, it doesn't have to be grand/extravagant...it just has to be genuine. And it sounds like it will be or you wouldn't be asking us bunch!! 169144-ok.gif

Do you know for sure she doesn't like flowers? I know they are a cliche but.....I have friends who would never normally like them but on Valentines Day they go into flower frenzy. Not me...of course. tongue.gifcoffee.gif

Link to comment
Share on other sites

well this is the first valentines we have done together. We met just after valentines last year. I honestly have been wanting to spend all my free time that i can with her recently what with working away so i really would struggle to sort much without her finding out.

I am pretty sure she doesnt like flowers as she has hayfever the same as me so generally is not keen on them.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

[ QUOTE ]

well this is the first valentines we have done together. We met just after valentines last year. I honestly have been wanting to spend all my free time that i can with her recently what with working away so i really would struggle to sort much without her finding out.

I am pretty sure she doesnt like flowers as she has hayfever the same as me so generally is not keen on them.

[/ QUOTE ]

Skif - get the flowers. I get hay fever. I still like flowers.... wink.gif

First Valentines Day? Flowers. 169144-ok.gif

Trust me.

Disclaimer - if she shouts at you this was Ari's idea.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

See?

Dave, this goes for you too! You don't care if she doesn't buy you a 911 GT3 for Valentines, but just think how pleased you'd be if she did! And yes, big bouquet of flowers on Valentines to a girl is roughly equivalent to a GT3*

* except Lottie, where a GT3 for Valentines roughly equates to a GT3 UHOH7.GIF

Link to comment
Share on other sites

[ QUOTE ]

[ QUOTE ]

[ QUOTE ]

It is handy to have a gf who isnt fussed by Valentines day smile.gif

[/ QUOTE ]

Oh you poor boy, you don't believe her when she says that do you..? smashfreakB.gif

[/ QUOTE ]

She genuinely isnt fussed, well hasnt been the last 3 years smlove2.gif

[/ QUOTE ]

grin.gif I've got myself in the situation where by if the red roses didn't arrive at Lady T's office they would be conspicuious by their absence smashfreakB.gif

grin.gif On a brighter note I'll be working from home to help have time to prepare a romantic dinner - making up for several years of always being away on Valentines Day as it always clashes with the 3GSM World Congress 169144-ok.gif

Link to comment
Share on other sites

so come on red - time to earn the Dr Love moniker!!

Cant believe how expensive a hot air balloon trip is! I was hoping to be under the £100 mark for valentines day and still not convinced by the flowers at the moment.

What makes it worse is she has sorted something for us on thurs nite when i get back, then over the weekend i have my parents down for the weekend and we are all going to see the lion king. So cant even do anything later in the weekend!! AAargh!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

 Share

×
×
  • Create New...