simonb Posted July 27, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 27, 2005 Guys - it's sorted. Back as we were. Thanks for all the advice - i understand both side of the argument - those of you telling me to call and those of you telling me to get out of it for good, but as i suspected, it's sorted and we're back to normal. Went out for a meal elsewhere last night, the Hum Ping chinese in St H, and then on to a film - guess what she chose, the 'Wedding Crashers', fair enough, it was the only thing on within the next 1+1/2 hours but after all that had happened. Anyway, never mind, was an ok-ish sort of comedy, back to normal now which can only be a good thing. Again, cheers for all the advice - it was nice to have so many opinions rather than speak to just a few of my mates at home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarMad Posted July 27, 2005 Report Share Posted July 27, 2005 Glad that things are sorted to her satisfaction. But I am interested as to what she said about what happened, will she be different next time, was she in the wrong etc... ?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simonb Posted July 27, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 27, 2005 Yes but no but yes. Said that she was in the wrong and over-reacted - she just felt a bit deflated of her new job news because of what i'd done, but understood what i'd done and why i'd done it. I think it's because i said i'd take her out and she'd been planning it all day. I involved a 3rd party at a very late stage in the planning and that spoiled her plans so that's why she spat the dummy out! Also, she just went to her mum and dads in anger, and has been very tired recently and fell asleep not long after she'd got there. That's why she didn't reply to my texts. Also, then her phone charger was at home so she never texted yesterday morning. Managed to charge her phone @ work on her spare charger but as it's a hospital, couldn't turn it on anyway. She's really not the type lie - over-react - maybe, lies - no, one thing she really hates. She wasn't really ignoring my texts or calls - she was either asleep, then her phone was dead. Anyway, sorted now so just want to put it all behind us. Going out tonight aswell - well it is her payday today and mine tomorrow - it'd be rude not too! Asked where she'd like to go but it's 'my choice' so guess where im taking her - karting! And when we get there and she says 'karting - what?, why?? etc' i will tell her that im doing it to help her out as that's where she is going for her hen night in october! (Always thinking ahead!!) Keep her happy and get a few laps in too! Sorted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brabus Posted July 27, 2005 Report Share Posted July 27, 2005 [ QUOTE ] Also, she just went to her mum and dads in anger, and has been very tired recently and fell asleep not long after she'd got there. That's why she didn't reply to my texts. Also, then her phone charger was at home so she never texted yesterday morning [/ QUOTE ] Yer, that's what they all say. She was shagging someone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saab Posted July 27, 2005 Report Share Posted July 27, 2005 Good news that it's sorted Simon . Without wishing to labour the point it is important that you make it crystal clear how unhappy you were and how unacceptable you consider her behaviour and make her realise that she runs a significant risk of jeopardizing what you have together if she does it again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peterb Posted July 27, 2005 Report Share Posted July 27, 2005 Show her this thread? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simonb Posted July 27, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 27, 2005 You know what - i thought that - show her the thread - but nah, better not do! I don't want her to know my secret hideout which is here. She thinks i go on forums like this to talk about things like fuel economy etc?!?! Chrispy - you're a cheeky b4st4rd!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schmoo Posted July 27, 2005 Report Share Posted July 27, 2005 truth hurts si Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simonb Posted July 27, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 27, 2005 Watch it!! You were all being so nice too. She wouldn't do that - she's been hurt a lot in the past by x-boyfriends doing it to her. I'm confident that she wouldn't do it - as naive as it may sound. Thanx for your 'concerns' though!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schmoo Posted July 27, 2005 Report Share Posted July 27, 2005 only winding you up bud, dont worry! just hope you dont get the same problem i had on my wedding day i had an abcess and was on the dentist chair 4hrs before saying I DO yes the car got ragged that day, cos the dentist was in chorley, the recption in bromley cross, bolton and the church in chorley. nightmare! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarMad Posted July 27, 2005 Report Share Posted July 27, 2005 Glad to see things have improved. Though the way you are explaining things, its the start of sorting things and you might still have a way to go. Just stay aware of what you want and expect out of the relationship and the limits of where you are going to let situations get to. If you keep saying to yourself, I can't take anymore or why is it always me that is compromising.... then get back to us and am sure we can all help out. But lets hope you don't and you live happily ever after. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simonb Posted July 27, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 27, 2005 Let me guess 'Schmoo' - Last Drop village?? Nice up there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wtf Posted July 28, 2005 Report Share Posted July 28, 2005 I'm glad you got it sorted, now I know she works in a hospital and is suffering from tiredness, I can kind of understand why she blew up like that but she really should try and keep her temper under control!! She can't walk out everytime you have a scrap Good luck for the future Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FiftyPence Posted July 30, 2005 Report Share Posted July 30, 2005 Glad to see its sorted, fingers crossed your marriage to her isnt going to be like that though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simonb Posted July 31, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 31, 2005 Thanx guys - not been on here for a few days - just letting you all know that i'm still alive and that she's not taken a knife to me yet!! Going great again. Thanks for all the advice! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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