beez Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 Ah right, well it was right here 1: I dont know if what I feel for her is real, or just a crush. 2: she's 14, and will be for the next 3 months too. 3: I'm not sure if she really likes me, or if she's just really a nice person. 4: She prefers my mates to me (i'm a little too flash <u>(modest)</u> for her I think) 5: She lives in eastern Poland. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malagus Posted August 4, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 no. flash as In shes a little shy and i'm just a little too blingin, and outspoken. I'm load, and like showing off what I have, plus she told me that she's unsure about my personality. shes quite shy and retiring, and i'm just loud, outspoken, and everything I have shouts, not whispers (if you catch my drift) i'm not trying to be big headed. I don't like being flash, but I have 2 pairs of bright red trainers, a bright red MP3 player, a blue camera, loud clothes. etc. that's just me. and BTW MrME, i'm not interested with having sex with someone underage, thats not right. The age is the main problem ( well, the fact she lives in eastern Poland is a small part), and i'm v. unsure still at this point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 Just find a bird at school who's as blingin as you are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peterb Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 Well, I'm going to go against the general run of 'advice' given here. Follow your heart and give it a try. If you don't, you'll always wonder what 'might have been'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FiftyPence Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 Shes from Poland and its hardly the richest country in the world is it. She may even live in one of those polish flats ive seen on tv. Youre 16, prime sexual urge age so i cant see how you can put off finding a nice local girl to get things moving Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malagus Posted August 4, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 [ QUOTE ] Shes from Poland and its hardly the richest country in the world is it. She may even live in one of those polish flats ive seen on tv. Youre 16, prime sexual urge age so i cant see how you can put off finding a nice local girl to get things moving [/ QUOTE ] 'those polish flats' are currently being knocked down in rzesow. she lives in a fairly large house in the suburbs, and the whole exchange group are flying to england in october, so I doubt that she has to sweep chimneys. Another reason why i'm worried is that I might not stay faithful to her, but I think i could control myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RossG Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 Mate, it drove me nuts when I was young and being told this sort of stuff - but I always had an incredible crush on someone and was always madly in love, and never knew wich way to jump etc. As a result lots of girls found various ways to take advantage - and I just fell deeper and deeper in 'love'. Believe me - you just need to get on with your life and stop making something bigger than it probably is. If you see her again on another trip, then so be it - enjoy the trip and enjoy her company. But, (no offence) this sounds like the type of teenage crush that I remember very clearly. Honestly, there is no way you should be thinking about forming lasting long distance relationships and declaring your love. Just go with the flow, let it go, and concentrate on yourself. I bet there will be someone else along in a couple of month's time. In my experience, that's just the nature of being a teenager. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bazza_g Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 good advice from Ross there Remember : - Fish, plenty, sea, there's, in, more Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hopsta Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 Dangle your rod and who knows what you might pick up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewNiceMrMe Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 [ QUOTE ] Dangle your rod and who knows what you might pick up [/ QUOTE ] She might laugh at the worm. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 Let's just hope he doesn't pick up a trout by accident. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malagus Posted August 5, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 wow. those last 4/5 posts were helpful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaddyDub Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 Malagus, Just bone the girl. When your 14/15/16 it's all that matters, even though you always think your in love, she and you will forget each other in later life and that will be that. Have fun mate! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adam Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 f*** me - who gets all Shaespearean at 16 think you are taking life way too seriously and at 14 leave well alone as she hasn't got a clue what she wants (they figure it out at about 35) and what does "I'm load" mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malagus Posted August 5, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 im loud. typo. BTW daddydub, if i do as you so tactfully said, I will end up in that place with bars the mrme mentioned, with every bone in my non-catholic body smashed to bits. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hopsta Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 [ QUOTE ] wow. those last 4/5 posts were helpful. [/ QUOTE ] You have to remember that from the sticky in this forum that it's meant to be light hearted fun. Some of the stuff posted in here has quite surprised me (for the good) bearing in mind that it's firstly a car forum. [ QUOTE ] You can ask personal stuff in here, but expect a funny answer back!!!! [/ QUOTE ] And as for the 14yr old.. leave well alone, shouldn't you be looking at her mom aka Mrs Robinson stylee, ask JHT if you need any tips G Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malagus Posted August 6, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 6, 2005 if you have seen my MSN display pic you will know thet she is really beautiful, plus I dont like her mom. meh./ it is going to be difficult, so I may leave well alone. But when I see her again, I just know i'm going to become that lovesick idiot again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FiftyPence Posted August 6, 2005 Report Share Posted August 6, 2005 her then hop it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malagus Posted August 8, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 8, 2005 i should probably go for someone in this county. Mrme- has your daughter got MSN messenger???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sophiem Posted August 8, 2005 Report Share Posted August 8, 2005 You need to bear in mind that at 14 she's going to be confused about her feelings, when i was 14 i fell madly in love with one of my mates, we went out, had a great time (didn't have sex) and we both thought we'd be together forever. It lasted all of 2 months when i decided i'd had enough of him and other guys started stealing my attention. Your feelings might be true, but i wouldn't expect her to feel so deeply, she's 14, and probably only just started getting interested in boys. If she was older i'd say go for it, but I'd be a bit wary if i were you. Plus I guess you'll be going to college soon - trust me, you'll find lots on offer there. Good luck and if you do decide to go for it i hope it all works out ok. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malagus Posted August 9, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 9, 2005 It's propbably because i've been sheltered from girls for the last few months due to doing GCSEs at a boys school. 6th form should be interesting. apparantly a polish girl is joining us for it. hope shes fit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FiftyPence Posted August 10, 2005 Report Share Posted August 10, 2005 with big knockers too, polish girls i know of are a nice height with thin little bodies and a cracking pair Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malagus Posted August 10, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 10, 2005 yup. thats pretty much the scheme of things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CraigR Posted August 10, 2005 Report Share Posted August 10, 2005 [ QUOTE ] with big knockers too, polish girls i know of are a nice height with thin little bodies and a cracking pair [/ QUOTE ] Noticed this tonight, having a wander around looking for somewhere nice for dinner Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malagus Posted August 12, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 12, 2005 Ooh. another good point- polish food is awesome too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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