Internet Encounters....

[RedRobin]

And you take the piss out of me and my seat belt

....Of course I do!! Every opportunity! - It's a TSN tradition and great banter .

She was definitely taking the piss out of me over how long it took me - I was expected to make the first move - Just as you are expected to remove your seatbelt (if it takes your fancy). I've already had an email from her this morning telling me how she felt good vibes between us during our chat. Sorry, but at my age, such things are major events!

Looking forward to seeing you at Brighton (in a manly, firmly seatbelted kind of way! )

Safe 'n Fun Journeys, buddy.

[Ritey]

Do you think she'd get jealous knowing how frequently you call me

[AvantSE]

Topic inspired by DigimeisTTer's thread "Internet Dating"....

Too many people dismiss such internet encounters as doomed and that anyone communicating on the net with someone they haven't ever met must be either desperate or a perv or both!

Taking TSN as an example, some of us build very friendly 'relationships' with other members via only our posts. Often we may never meet but I'm sure that many of us here have felt a degree of friendship through just our written exchanges. And then we happen to meet in person at a TSN meet and find that we still relate very well and our feelings of friendship are there in real life. Without mentioning names (and risking them telling me to feck off and they really detest me but have been pretending purely out of politeness!), I consider more than just one or two TSNers as real friends who I can share enjoyable time with outside TSN.

So, by transferring that same principle of exchanges with members of the opposite sex or citizens from the planet Venus, there's no justifiable reason that a relationship won't work. It might not work because of reasons of distance or after meeting face-to-face etc but that's nothing to do with what brought you together in the first place.

I use MySpace on a regular daily basis as an internet place to present and offer my music. It also allows me to conveniently stay in touch with friends overseas whom I already know in person. I also use it to network with others whose music I like. There are also people on MySpace who love music but don't play and I welcome their interest in my music. Whether musicians or not, a particularly friendly 'relationship' can develop - Some fade away but some continue and are only based on posted Comments and written exchanges (like PM's here). The instrument I play seems to attract more females than males, but I'm not complaining!!

Interestingly (to me) I have fallen into a very regular and enjoyable exchange with a young lady (not too young!! - Late 30's). Neither of us are seeking a committed relationship but we are just going with the flow and it's turning into a free-flowing tap! There are no expectations and we may never meet, but it doesn't matter - We value our friendship and enjoy it. We are obviously very kindred spirits. And yes - We do know what each other looks like from numerous photos. And no - I'm not going to post any!

I believe that someone's true character actually can come across via just the written word and their photos.

Do you guys and girls think that this is all dangerous rubbish or do you think similarly to myself?....

That's all very well Robin, but... did you get a shag?

[peterb]

Hmmm ... I've come to this thread a little bit late, but I think Robin knows, and understands, my views.

I met Ruby, quite by chance, on the net, last April. On that first occasion, we 'chatted' for over five hours. Within 3 weeks I'd booked my flight to the Philippines. My first visit was at the end of May, then again in July, when we arranged Ruby's visa to visit the UK. In September, I flew out again, in order to bring her back to UK.

Of course, I wasn't prepared to make a commitment before we met in person, but we clearly had something 'special' between us. This was confirmed on my first visit, and it was then that we began making serious plans to share the future together.

At the beginning of December, having sold my house, both my cars and having packed most of the rest of my belongings into a sea container, we came back to Philippines together.

We married at the end of February this year, and have a wonderful life together. Oh, and age difference doesn't matter at all - I was 53, and Ruby 23, when we first met. Of course, there are some cultures where large age differences are not uncommon. The Philippines is one of those.

So, yes, I can say that 'Internet encounters' can be truly rewarding.

Apart from the love and togetherness which we share, life is good in the material sense too. We had purchased 1.5 hectares of farm land last year, which Ruby's father manages, and has been planted up for palm-oil production. Our first harvest should be later this year.

We have recently purchased 11 hectares of already productive coconut and fruit farm (for £50k). Net returns from this should mean that we recover our investment in about 2 years.

We purchased 900 sq m (~9000 sq ft) residential land and are currently building a 'high-spec' house of about 3000 sq ft total floor area (larger than the house in Reading which I sold for £530k). The land cost £25k, and the cost of building will be about £60k.

We have also bought 0.25 hectare of land with about 80 metres of beach frontage - our own private and secluded sandy beach, fringed with palm trees.

As you can imagine, we are both very glad that we followed our instincts last April.

[RedRobin]

....Very glad to read you have found a paradise . I thought for a moment that your post was going to be sad news - Am glad it's not.

[Dave]

Nice to have a catch up Peter.. glad things worked out

I'm in a similar situation (not as extreme as yours) where I've ditched much of the material things that I once hankered for, and am much happier for it...

I enjoy my family and my surf board

[RedRobin]

....I got to the second line of your post, Dave, and thought I was reading that you had ditched your family and was taking up with a pretty Phillipino lady!!

I don't need any more material things - I've got all I need. I enjoy my daughter, my friends, my music, and my glorious GTI

I've always had great respect for surfing dudes and that mentality.

[Dave]

Without getting too deep and philosophical, surfing (or music in your case) gives you a level, a base, which keeps life in perspective.

Being out in the sea when it's running, with a couple of seals and some birds for company, can be quite a leveller. Certainly when compared to all the aggro that life can bring nowadays..

I've chased money and material items, and yes, they may give you joy for a couple of weeks.. but it's short term fulfilment.. there are certain things in life that give you joy for life...

if that makes sense

[peterb]

there are certain things in life that give you joy for life...

if that makes sense

Indeed! Did I mention the 2 beautiful 18 y/o filipinas who look after us and the house, and who are very happy to receive £5 a week?

[Soulboy]

Well I have lifted myself out of my post splitting up gloom, with some on-line dating.

Fantastic!

I am currently 'interviewing' most nights

I am in no rush at all and dont want a serious relationship at the moment (I make it clear in my profile)

First girl, first night asked me to stay the night (I didn't).

I have met a girl I dont fancy at all but who has become a decent friend to go out for a chat with.

I have met a girl much younger who is coming surfing with me.

And I have met an absolute stunner. Wealthy too and has a Z4. who looks like Britt Ekland. Trying to play it slow and take it easy, but its bloody hard with this one.

I am meeting a girl called Zoe tonight as well, but know it cant go anywhere as she has children.

So, its getting me out the house, making me smile and laugh again, made at least one good friend, been offered sex, got a surfing buddy, and met someone I actually really like.

Not bad for £15!

ps there are a lot of 'needy women' out there, but anyone with a bit of woman experience can sense them and give them a swerve.

Its really really strange actually. If you met some of them in a bar it would take ages till they felt comfortable with you.

Spend a few minutes on the internet and make them laugh - and you meet with a big smile, hug and they are completely relaxed.

Weird - but ace!

[Booster]

Good work Soulboy+++

That's the way to do it!

And "this thread is worthless without pics":grin:

[Hopsta]

fecking ell you don't hang about, top work fella, hope it works out for you one way or another

[RedRobin]

there are a lot of 'needy women' out there, but anyone with a bit of woman experience can sense them and give them a swerve.

Its really really strange actually. If you met some of them in a bar it would take ages till they felt comfortable with you.

Spend a few minutes on the internet and make them laugh - and you meet with a big smile, hug and they are completely relaxed.

Weird - but ace!

....So very important to spot the 'needy' ones (and also not to be 'needy' yourself!) .

Great news, soulboy! Enjoy!

[Soulboy]

....So very important to spot the 'needy' ones (and also not to be 'needy' yourself!) .

Great news, soulboy! Enjoy!

I cant believe how most of the blokes still dont get it.

If you read the womens profiles - they all want to meet someone with a sense of humour, who can make them laugh.

So what do all the blokes write ....'I am an accountant who works 9 to 5 and likes watching football and going out and sometimes staying in.....blah, blah, blah'

Heres a few bits from mine

my job:

Up until yesterday, I wanted to be the first man on the Moon. But some random bird mailed me and said it has been done already.

So I am going to try and be the second.

my education:

I WEnt tOO SkhoooL

favorite hot spots:

Cooker, microwave, iron and sauna.

for fun:

All the usual...

Gym, adrenalin rushes, pub, cooking, going out, staying in, staying out...then going back in. sometimes I just stand half way out of the door to get the best of both worlds.

What you are looking for:

I really would prefer to avoid the village nutters!

So if you think that just possibly might be you, I believe the guy in the next profile along says he really fancies you - go check him out, hes a real catch; rich dark and gorgeous. Just like a Chocolate Orange (I know what makes you girls tick!)

He also thinks you have got a fabulous ar5e and loves your mother.

That was close.

I am also interested in meeting any woman who can read a map.

*silence*

PS As I am tagged, I may have to be in before 9pm and the latest ASBO bans me from entering certain areas and meeting gang members.

So we may have to be careful with times and places for our courtship to blossom.

*joke*

PPS No gang members.

PPPS. I need to buy a new vacume cleaner. Any tips girls?

So far I have had about 50 responses in under 2 weeks and I keep changing the profile. If you wanted to you could literally laugh your way into a different pair of knickers every night

[Ritey]

Care to share the site?

[RedRobin]

Care to share the site?

....You might have to unfasten your safety belt, Dave

Brilliant lines, Soulboy :notworthy: - You almost got me wanting a date!

[Andyuk911]

I thought this appropriate to the subject matter

VXR meeting of the century....... - VXRonline.co.uk

I actually did not know !

[RedRobin]

I thought this appropriate to the subject matter

VXR meeting of the century....... - VXRonline.co.uk

I actually did not know !

....Oh, it's the big guy BO55 - MOSE's mate and he's been to a few TSN meets - Very nice guy.

I wish him well and a great day! I must ask MOSE to wish him well from me.

[Hopsta]

Care to share the site?

Quick googles comes up with this....

Official Deadliest Catch Fan Site - Deadliest Catch Wiki

[Paul]

It sounds a bit fishy to me

[shao_khan]

Do you guys and girls think that this is all dangerous rubbish or do you think similarly to myself?....

My sister met her fella on the net - about 8 years ago now

[MOSE]

....Oh, it's the big guy BO55 - MOSE's mate and he's been to a few TSN meets - Very nice guy.

I wish him well and a great day! I must ask MOSE to wish him well from me.

I will do that Robin....no probs!!

[RedRobin]

I will do that Robin....no probs!!

....Thanks! I know I don't know him well but I like the fella A bit of a gentle giant type of character (and no, I didn't say he looked like Shrek! ). Got a pic of you and him somewhere - Pinky & Perky

See ya!

[m4ttm4son]

I cant believe how most of the blokes still dont get it.

If you read the womens profiles - they all want to meet someone with a sense of humour, who can make them laugh.

So what do all the blokes write ....'I am an accountant who works 9 to 5 and likes watching football and going out and sometimes staying in.....blah, blah, blah'

Heres a few bits from mine

my job:

Up until yesterday, I wanted to be the first man on the Moon. But some random bird mailed me and said it has been done already.

So I am going to try and be the second.

my education:

I WEnt tOO SkhoooL

favorite hot spots:

Cooker, microwave, iron and sauna.

for fun:

All the usual...

Gym, adrenalin rushes, pub, cooking, going out, staying in, staying out...then going back in. sometimes I just stand half way out of the door to get the best of both worlds.

What you are looking for:

I really would prefer to avoid the village nutters!

So if you think that just possibly might be you, I believe the guy in the next profile along says he really fancies you - go check him out, hes a real catch; rich dark and gorgeous. Just like a Chocolate Orange (I know what makes you girls tick!)

He also thinks you have got a fabulous ar5e and loves your mother.

That was close.

I am also interested in meeting any woman who can read a map.

*silence*

PS As I am tagged, I may have to be in before 9pm and the latest ASBO bans me from entering certain areas and meeting gang members.

So we may have to be careful with times and places for our courtship to blossom.

*joke*

PPS No gang members.

PPPS. I need to buy a new vacume cleaner. Any tips girls?

So far I have had about 50 responses in under 2 weeks and I keep changing the profile. If you wanted to you could literally laugh your way into a different pair of knickers every night

Definitely the way to write a profile!

[Brabus]

I cant believe how most of the blokes still dont get it.

If you read the womens profiles - they all want to meet someone with a sense of humour, who can make them laugh.

So what do all the blokes write ....'I am an accountant who works 9 to 5 and likes watching football and going out and sometimes staying in.....blah, blah, blah'

Heres a few bits from mine

my job:

Up until yesterday, I wanted to be the first man on the Moon. But some random bird mailed me and said it has been done already.

So I am going to try and be the second.

my education:

I WEnt tOO SkhoooL

favorite hot spots:

Cooker, microwave, iron and sauna.

for fun:

All the usual...

Gym, adrenalin rushes, pub, cooking, going out, staying in, staying out...then going back in. sometimes I just stand half way out of the door to get the best of both worlds.

What you are looking for:

I really would prefer to avoid the village nutters!

So if you think that just possibly might be you, I believe the guy in the next profile along says he really fancies you - go check him out, hes a real catch; rich dark and gorgeous. Just like a Chocolate Orange (I know what makes you girls tick!)

He also thinks you have got a fabulous ar5e and loves your mother.

That was close.

I am also interested in meeting any woman who can read a map.

*silence*

PS As I am tagged, I may have to be in before 9pm and the latest ASBO bans me from entering certain areas and meeting gang members.

So we may have to be careful with times and places for our courtship to blossom.

*joke*

PPS No gang members.

PPPS. I need to buy a new vacume cleaner. Any tips girls?

So far I have had about 50 responses in under 2 weeks and I keep changing the profile. If you wanted to you could literally laugh your way into a different pair of knickers every night

Why aren't you that funny on here?