Riz Posted January 29, 2006 Report Share Posted January 29, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Ok well im really kicking myself at the moment.... got chatting with a lady off a site and we are getting on really well, shes even said that im a gentleman and am nice etc.... She invited me up to leeds for a night out as she was out with friends and even said she`ll put me up for the night.... What does Mr Riz do???? fcuk all.... I realised about ermmm 4pm friday that I should have gone up to see her...... and even my cousin said he would have drove me there and back... She`s a really nice lady from what we have talked about so far.... I hope she`s online again soon and that she doesnt think im a numpty for not jumping at the chance to meet her.... [/ QUOTE ] Thought I would start a new post so you can all keep up to date with how its going after my blunder.... Well we are still chatting so ive not scared her off with my numpty shyness.... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wallachie Posted January 29, 2006 Report Share Posted January 29, 2006 [ QUOTE ] ive not scared her off [/ QUOTE ] Give it some time, you soon will......!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted January 29, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 29, 2006 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] ive not scared her off [/ QUOTE ] Give it some time, you soon will......!! [/ QUOTE ] Nope noway will I scare her off...... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TriGGa Posted January 29, 2006 Report Share Posted January 29, 2006 has she asked you to join her once again?? methinks she has plans .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted January 29, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 29, 2006 [ QUOTE ] has she asked you to join her once again?? methinks she has plans .. [/ QUOTE ]Nope she doesnt want to rush things but im under the impression she likes me alot by the way she types things.... and how she wont tell me what was on her mind earlier.... I asked her and she said it might be me.... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saab Posted January 29, 2006 Report Share Posted January 29, 2006 Remind us of the relevant information about this latest hottie please. I trust that you have seen a photograph - that is pretty important - and not just a head and shoulders number, nor one which is "a few years old". Anyway glad you realise you're a fool for not going to meet her because it was basically there on a plate for you - next time she asks drop everything and get over there sharpish - if she's chatting to you online guaranteed she is chatting to other blokes too and if she thinks you're not going to give her what she wants then she'll ask one of them instead. When you have set up a meeting let us know the time and venue - in your capacity as advisors we will ensure that we are at said location "incognito" - stationed at a nearby table - on hand to ensure things are going as planned. If she brings her mates we will make sure the fit ones are removed for detailed undercover investigation and the er...larger ones are threatened with a harpoon and packed off home with a kebab - or sent in Ari's direction. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wallachie Posted January 29, 2006 Report Share Posted January 29, 2006 [ QUOTE ] the er...larger ones are threatened with a harpoon and packed off home with a kebab - or sent in Ari's direction. [/ QUOTE ] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steffiraf Posted January 29, 2006 Report Share Posted January 29, 2006 [ QUOTE ] When you have set up a meeting let us know the time and venue - in your capacity as advisors we will ensure that we are at said location "incognito" - stationed at a nearby table - on hand to ensure things are going as planned. If she brings her mates we will make sure the fit ones are removed for detailed undercover investigation and the er... larger ones are threatened with a harpoon and packed off home with a kebab - or sent in Ari's direction. [/ QUOTE ] You'll not be wanting my recon services then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TriGGa Posted January 29, 2006 Report Share Posted January 29, 2006 [ QUOTE ] trust that you have seen a photograph - [/ QUOTE ] judgin by other things regardin the fairer sex.. id hope uve seen more than a pic.. maybe been on webcam with her?? Plus plus plus.. how far does she live? because if it is a solar system away then maybe you chose wisely when not going.. this "taking it slow" doesn't sound all that encouraging - unless this was said after you turned her down? shame on you riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted January 29, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 29, 2006 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] trust that you have seen a photograph - [/ QUOTE ] judgin by other things regardin the fairer sex.. id hope uve seen more than a pic.. maybe been on webcam with her?? Plus plus plus.. how far does she live? because if it is a solar system away then maybe you chose wisely when not going.. this "taking it slow" doesn't sound all that encouraging - unless this was said after you turned her down? shame on you riz [/ QUOTE ]Well ermmm yes ive seen her picture and shes only a hours drive away... I think she and I get along well and she knows that.. suppose she just want to rush thats all.... probably..... I dont know why on earth I didnt go and meet her... I was out of my mind... totally! I dont think she uses the internet much and wont have a webcam..... I will just try and take it slowly too and see what develops..... she is a nice lady with a wise head I think. Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mo-S3 Posted January 30, 2006 Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 Hmmmm I carefully note that you state that you have seen her picture but then you fail to mention that she is even slightly attractive hence we will make our own assumption that she might resemble Jabba the Hut's sister... Woaaahh there Ari my son just let Riz have her first! Secondly you make a lot of assumprions about her; how she doesnt use the interent a lot and wont have a webcam blah blah blah... how do you know that for a fact? She might be an online stripper! Which chat room/site did you find her from? i think you should post her pic up on here matey and let us help you, after all, you have asked us for advice and we want to make sure your doing the right thing! Oh and im sure we would all love to come along and sit at the next table in beefeater or macdonalds to make sure your ok. Even if it means us all having to take turns sitting at the table 50 at a time. Rest assured we will be very discreet. A bit like a silent fart in an elevator! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollox Posted January 30, 2006 Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 Riz, Riz, Riz….. What ARE you doing? Go back and read the “pulling girls” thread. Get showered, go out, get chatting. Its that simple. You’re looking in all the classic wrong places and the net is one of the most dangerous. She might be the woman of your dreams, she might also be a monster, she might be a wife who’s husband will be lurking in the wardrobe with a video recorder, hell he might even want to join in, she might be married, she might be a bunny boiler, she might be a he, she might be a criminal. You really don’t know. The only thing that you should be sure of is that if you wanted to find any of the above, you’d go looking on the net first! What you want is a real girl, in Sheffield who you can actually see regularly. You’re just setting yourself up for another fall. Sorry to sound so harsh but you need to go OUT and get chatting. Simple! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jsparkesuk Posted January 30, 2006 Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Simple! [/ QUOTE ] Bad use of words Mollox. Its never simple, Riz maybe talking to the women of his dreams! Or Not But he could go out and pull some bird who's married to mr sheffield steal built like a brick sh1t house if he gets some clober on and removes himself from the PC. The point is Riz be careful, if you think its right go for it, if its not as good as you thought then, oh well, learn from your mistakes. But what i will say is stop being such a big girl, get a little confidence and go and meet her, wine her e.t.c... Comprende? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrew Posted January 30, 2006 Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 I'm with Molly: whatever happened to going out? The web works for an introduction I suppose but you need to convert it into something REAL asap to avoid wasting yours and their time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fjfr Posted January 30, 2006 Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Riz, Riz, Riz….. What ARE you doing? Go back and read the “pulling girls” thread. Get showered, go out, get chatting. Its that simple. You’re looking in all the classic wrong places and the net is one of the most dangerous. She might be the woman of your dreams, she might also be a monster, she might be a wife who’s husband will be lurking in the wardrobe with a video recorder, hell he might even want to join in, she might be married, she might be a bunny boiler, she might be a he, she might be a criminal. You really don’t know. The only thing that you should be sure of is that if you wanted to find any of the above, you’d go looking on the net first! What you want is a real girl, in Sheffield who you can actually see regularly. You’re just setting yourself up for another fall. Sorry to sound so harsh but you need to go OUT and get chatting. Simple! [/ QUOTE ] Good advice - you need real people!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted January 30, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 Sent her a email with the above quote... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollox Posted January 30, 2006 Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 You sent her my post? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saab Posted January 30, 2006 Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Good advice - you need real people!! [/ QUOTE ] Completely agree, in fact I have been saying that all along - as have many others. However TomK did make a success of the internet dating thing, so it is possible - he is the only person I know for whom it has worked out really well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted January 30, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 [ QUOTE ] You sent her my post? [/ QUOTE ]Noooo not yours... This one... [ QUOTE ] Riz, Riz, Riz….. What ARE you doing? Get showered, go out, get chatting. Its that simple. You’re looking in all the classic wrong places and the net is one of the most dangerous. She might be the woman of your dreams, she might also be a monster, she might be a wife who’s husband will be lurking in the wardrobe with a video recorder, hell he might even want to join in, she might be married, she might be a bunny boiler, she might be a he, she might be a criminal. You really don’t know. The only thing that you should be sure of is that if you wanted to find any of the above, you’d go looking on the net first! What you want is a real girl, in Sheffield who you can actually see regularly. You’re just setting yourself up for another fall. Sorry to sound so harsh but you need to go OUT and get chatting. Simple! [/ QUOTE ] Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saab Posted January 30, 2006 Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Sent her a email with the above quote... [/ QUOTE ] Telling her you have been sounding out your cyber mates about her on a public forum....hmmmm....perhaps not a strategy I would have gone with..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted January 30, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] Sent her a email with the above quote... [/ QUOTE ] Telling her you have been sounding out your cyber mates about her on a public forum....hmmmm....perhaps not a strategy I would have gone with..... [/ QUOTE ]Naaaa I removed the line regarding the thread and told her if was from a friend... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollox Posted January 30, 2006 Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 That was my post! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted January 30, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 [ QUOTE ] That was my post! [/ QUOTE ]Oooops sorry friend Well shes reading my email.... mmmmmm...... crunch time... ive asked for her number... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollox Posted January 30, 2006 Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 You sent her a post about women on the internet being murderers or sex fiends and you reckon she's going to give you her number? The idea of the post was that you packed in the internet stuff and got out on the tiles looking for real life ladies - not that you'd send her my message and ask for a number? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted January 30, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 [ QUOTE ] You sent her a post about women on the internet being murderers or sex fiends and you reckon she's going to give you her number? The idea of the post was that you packed in the internet stuff and got out on the tiles looking for real life ladies - not that you'd send her my message and ask for a number? [/ QUOTE ]Ermmmm oooops well we are still chatting so nothing new.... yet.... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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