lottiefox Posted February 1, 2006 Report Share Posted February 1, 2006 [ QUOTE ] That never lasts, if a girl thinks you're sweet you might as well walk away. I know it sounds pretty harsh, but she will soon get bored and move on. Girls like to have male friends who are sweet and nice, but in general women want so called 'bad boys'. Be a bastard, and might find you have more success...... [/ QUOTE ] Mills - sorry, but that is a generalising load of !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wallachie Posted February 1, 2006 Report Share Posted February 1, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Mills - sorry, but that is a generalising load of !!! [/ QUOTE ] It's tried and tested, that's all I'll say..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sophiem Posted February 1, 2006 Report Share Posted February 1, 2006 [ QUOTE ] So does this mean Riz is in with a chance with you, DBGTM? [/ QUOTE ] Actually I've heard you're more Riz's type James... Sorry Riz! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skifly Posted February 1, 2006 Report Share Posted February 1, 2006 lottie - seems to be a sad fact that most women i know want the "bad-boy" type rather than a decent guy. Either that or they care more about their wallet than anything else!! Even had one friend who called me loads to find out how much someone they found on the membership computer at work earnt (forget privacy stuff to start with)!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ian_m Posted February 1, 2006 Report Share Posted February 1, 2006 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] So does this mean Riz is in with a chance with you, DBGTM? [/ QUOTE ] Actually I've heard you're more Riz's type James... Sorry Riz! [/ QUOTE ] That sounds like a fairly conclusive No then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TriGGa Posted February 1, 2006 Report Share Posted February 1, 2006 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] That never lasts, if a girl thinks you're sweet you might as well walk away. I know it sounds pretty harsh, but she will soon get bored and move on. Girls like to have male friends who are sweet and nice, but in general women want so called 'bad boys'. Be a bastard, and might find you have more success...... [/ QUOTE ] Mills - sorry, but that is a generalising load of !!! [/ QUOTE ] sorry lottie but i gotta agree with this, although there are a few girls who go for the "sweet/sensitive" type most of them go for the baddest meanest and thats just a way of life Actually.. thats so far until 16 ( cant really comment on older girls) .. lets hope it changes later in life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesB Posted February 1, 2006 Report Share Posted February 1, 2006 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] So does this mean Riz is in with a chance with you, DBGTM? [/ QUOTE ] Actually I've heard you're more Riz's type James... Sorry Riz! [/ QUOTE ] If I'm Riz's type, you're damn right to feel sorry for him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted February 1, 2006 Author Report Share Posted February 1, 2006 Im so down Fed up with work...... and life in general.... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesB Posted February 1, 2006 Report Share Posted February 1, 2006 Mate, last time I checked, you were young, healthy, not hideously deformed, working, lived in a nice place and had 6 potential women lined up. When you look at it like that, can it really be that bad? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted February 1, 2006 Author Report Share Posted February 1, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Mate, last time I checked, you were young, healthy, not hideously deformed, working, lived in a nice place and had 6 potential women lined up. When you look at it like that, can it really be that bad? [/ QUOTE ]Im a ok fella and do have a nice place... but being alone isnt helping.... and the 6 potentials are just ermm well clutching at straws... they arent intrested in me... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparky Posted February 1, 2006 Report Share Posted February 1, 2006 Maybe, just maybe, if you weren't such a wet lettuce, that you'd appear more attractive? Seriously, sounding like you do, you'll send them running. You need to be far happier around women to get anywhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fjfr Posted February 1, 2006 Report Share Posted February 1, 2006 Just go flirt with every nice lookin' girl you come across - waitresses, receptionists, shop assistants. It'll make you smile, It'll make them smile & something might come out of it, and if it doesn't then so what? Sparky's right - be happy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BenjaminTDI Posted February 2, 2006 Report Share Posted February 2, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Im so down Fed up with work...... and life in general.... Riz [/ QUOTE ] If you really want a girlfriend, you've got to get your chin up and look on the brightside. You need to come across more confident and content with life, if you talk to them about how lonely you are etc.. they will not want to see you again. Make a decent convo but don't try too hard. I don't think you need to be a 'bastard' to get women, you'll just attract the wrong types. Decent women do not go for 'bad boys' or 'rogues', they go for nice guys who they know will treat them properly and remain faithful. Finding the right girl sadly takes a lot of time and a lot of effort mate. It's best to keep seeing different people - it will help you decide what you want, or do you know that already? Anyway I wish you the best of luck, the search continues! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steffiraf Posted February 2, 2006 Report Share Posted February 2, 2006 Riz You seriously have to cheer up and chill out. There is one thing that makes women run a mile faster than anything else and thats desperation. If you talk to them like you talk on this thread, you have no chance. Stop worrying about it, your world wont end if you dont have female company. Get out with yr mates, and stop looking for the nearest woman to harrass, and maybe you'll find what yr looking for. HTH Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saab Posted February 2, 2006 Report Share Posted February 2, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Im so down Fed up with work...... and life in general.... Riz [/ QUOTE ] What's the problem mate? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skifly Posted February 2, 2006 Report Share Posted February 2, 2006 riz - a plan for you after looking back on my recent activities and life etc... Once you get someone interested your confidence will rocket... and then you will find you become more attractive (as you are more confident) to more women. So - fake it for a bit. Take the piss a little or simply be "a little" cocky in the way you do everyday things around women. Simply stuff like having a chat with the a bird at a till. When speaking to people even for the smallest thing become slightly more animated facially... and overplay what you say... e.g. not simply a "Hi!" --> do a "Why Thankyou" If someone looks at you on the bus / tube etc when you walk past etc actually crack a very wry knowing smile almost like you think they are the most attractive bird on the planet and you want to shag their brains out... you will be suprised how many women will respond with a little smile - its almost like a fleeting moment of flattery... watch for their responses and it will give you both a little lift and maybe make someones day. Its quite good and i often play that game when out... its amazing how much more attention you get just by being a little more animated and confident. Finally take time to look where you are going even if its just to the coffee machine at work - an air of confidence does wonders for peoples impression of you. Change some of the little normal things you do to - like always chatting to some bird at work etc... maybe just a knowing wry smile once in a while to make life slightly more random for her etc... small things that may help anyways... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted February 2, 2006 Author Report Share Posted February 2, 2006 Mmmm i want a RS4 Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ian_m Posted February 2, 2006 Report Share Posted February 2, 2006 WTF has that got to do with this situation??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted February 2, 2006 Author Report Share Posted February 2, 2006 [ QUOTE ] WTF has that got to do with this situation??? [/ QUOTE ]Well it would make me happier.... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ian_m Posted February 2, 2006 Report Share Posted February 2, 2006 Winning the Euro Millions would make me happy but it aint gonna happen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted February 2, 2006 Author Report Share Posted February 2, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Winning the Euro Millions would make me happy but it aint gonna happen [/ QUOTE ]Mmmmm well I suppose how badly I want a RS4... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ian_m Posted February 2, 2006 Report Share Posted February 2, 2006 Well if you can genuinely afford a RS4, you cannot be serious when you say you are feeling down about life, there are people out there in a lot worse position than you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted February 2, 2006 Author Report Share Posted February 2, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Well if you can genuinely afford a RS4, you cannot be serious when you say you are feeling down about life, there are people out there in a lot worse position than you! [/ QUOTE ]Yes i know, im lucky but havent been as happy when i used to have my pride and joy R32... dont get my wrong the place i have got is good but maybe i should have waited at home with parents and then met somebody etc etc etc Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mo-S3 Posted February 2, 2006 Report Share Posted February 2, 2006 The root of all your problems is that you need a set of tailpipes to polish every night! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TriGGa Posted February 2, 2006 Report Share Posted February 2, 2006 [ QUOTE ] The root of all your problems is that you need a set of tailpipes to polish every night! [/ QUOTE ] Riz i think you should jus stay calm and look forward to the weekend!.. go out friday/saturday night and go wild!-o enjoy yaself and monday mornin you#ll be as right as rain Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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