danksy Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 Well fate is a funny thing isn't it What i didn't say on the other two posts about my wifes' adultery was that her boss went on holiday for 4 weeks with his wife to Australia just a few days after i found out about them. During that few days I wrote him a few emails and left a voicemail basically telling him what a piece of crap he was The last one i wrote was on the day he left for holiday telling him basically that our marriage was strong enough to survive, and to use the next 4 weeks with his wife to examine their relationship to see if they had a future together. I also disclosed that i knew his wifes' name and employer*, their their current and previous addresses, their mobile and home numbers*, and the email addresses of the HR director at the company he works for, and to stay away from kate if he valued his career. I also promised Kate (my wife) that I would NOT do anything to land her boss in the crap at work or home whilst we were working things out (I know, I know ) He was due back in the office yesterday after his 4 week holiday.... guess what.... he didn't show Today he hasn't shown up either With a bit of luck he's decided not to go back to work I can't say if this is the case that i wont be pleased * - I didn't have any telephone details, other than his work mobile, and work direct line. I didn't have his wifes' employers name Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamD Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 Let's hope he has been bitten by one of these bad boys whilst in Oz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danksy Posted November 10, 2006 Author Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 I wouldn't be sorry if he had Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A8_Tony Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 Is the Newspaper heading going to be something along the lines of: [ QUOTE ] British man kidnapped, body not found, new wife distraught, but OK [/ QUOTE ] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randellp Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 Danksy, it looks like this guy has a real problem on his hands - well done for engineering this. Has your wife already resigned? If this guy never shows up, and she stays put, perhaps she would find herself in a more rewarding position?! BTW - not really trying to pry, but it would help to appreciate your situation to know how you found out about your wife - did she come clean or did you accidentally find out (or were told by someone)? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calm Chris Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 [ QUOTE ] she would find herself in a more rewarding position?! [/ QUOTE ] That's a bit of a faux pas, or is it just me? Danksy- It could be that he has simply decided to roll over the holiday till Monday, I've done the ad hoc holiday extension a few times, especially after a long haul flight. The alternative scenario is that someone else was accessing his mail when he was away, and that someone has told the true mgmt at work all about it. Maybe he has been TOLD not to return Have you ever seen Lock, Stock and 2 Smoking Barrels- the pig scene on how to get rid of a body How long would it take 25,000 hungry chickens to eat a male adult human, have you worked it out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randellp Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 unintended double entendre - my apologies! you can swap "position" with "situation". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brisel Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 Glad that things are looking up You have handled this very well IMO Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steve2 Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 Wonder if he 'bumped' into Bison or Rachael H Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danksy Posted November 11, 2006 Author Report Share Posted November 11, 2006 @ Steve2 It had crossed my mind that he may come in on Monday, but at least i had a laugh at his expense Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulboy Posted November 11, 2006 Report Share Posted November 11, 2006 Whatever has happened - in my opinion you handled it really well. I reckon the best result would be if he confessed all to his missus - and they have had to go through the same crap as you two. PS hope its still all working out well for you. PPS Going to start a new thread about cheating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ian_C Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 Nick, the cheque cleared fine thanks. Ian Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danksy Posted November 12, 2006 Author Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 You can get some tyres without white writing on the side now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ian_C Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 Was thinking of an S4 actually, but I will indeed have some change left over... Ian Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Any news Danks? Is he in today? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danksy Posted November 13, 2006 Author Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 He's in Txt'd him and asked him if he was bringing his wife to the christmas do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 So what is happening? Has your wife given notice? Are you going to get a "proper" job? Is she going to feed the chickens..? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danksy Posted November 13, 2006 Author Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 yes,yes,yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 She must be very pleased. Hope it all works out for the best mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skifly Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 dansky you do us all proud... 1 with the way you are handling this and 2 with not losing the sense of humour. I hope all is going well and sorry to hear about everything. I have had it happen with one girlfriend who was living with me and that was bad enough with the genreal state i was in at the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rustynuts Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Are you playing with him, Dansky? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danksy Posted November 14, 2006 Author Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 Yup Making him squirm Going to write a xmas card to him and his wife in my name, she'll ask... who's danksy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarMad Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 Nice one. You may as well have a bit of fun with it if nothing else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 When does your wife finish working there Nick? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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