Muppetboy Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 I have also been made redundant which doesnt help Holy sh*t, sorry to hear about this... as I said before hang in there, it wont feel like it now but things will start to look up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkPrincess Posted January 26, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Ok, had a call from the hospital this evening and have to go back in eary tomorrow morning. Something is wrong! Terrible wrong. My hormone level is increasing, and they said that something has to be there for the hormone to increase. It is possible there is a second pregnancy that has been missed - but now as i have had the 1st removed and body flushed this wont survive as a viable pregnancy. But it could be that something has remained. To top it all off i have an infection of the Uterus now When will this all end? I have had to face the fact I have lost my baby, the baby i should protect and look after, but didnt/couldnt I might have to go under the knife again, not sure how much more i can take. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cruiser647 Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 You don't have a choice BUT to take it. You have to take it to make sure hubbie and kiddy have a life WITH you and you with them. Things will get better, the doctors know best and will have your best interests at heart. Am I right in thinking you have a kid already? (say yes, otherwise all my posts have been wrong and I apologise!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkPrincess Posted January 26, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Yes I have a beautiful daughter. But I am a state now, I have no way of getting to hospital unless I drive, which will cause me a great deal of pain. Everything is so ****ed up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vagabond Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 Very sad to read all this PP. I can totally understand how you must feel, i went through similar stuff (same as soulboy really). You WILL come through all this pain and prevail. Concentrate on your beautiful wee daughter. As has already been said, you're young and you have time on your side. Chin up, all the best!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mac Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 PP One thing at a time Miss, nothing is ever as complex as it looks. Get yourself to hospital, get yourself right, and then you can do your stuff for your family too. Friends/Family can take you surely? Failing that, I'm pretty sure that the NHS is there to help people who need helping so ring up and explain - my guess is they'll taxi/ambulance where you need to be. You don't know till you ask. The world is a funny place. If you wander through life with only good things happening, well you never appreciate it. It's almost like you need tough times to be able to properly appreciate the good ones. Keep it together Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shark_90 Posted January 26, 2009 Report Share Posted January 26, 2009 If you wander through life with only good things happening, well you never appreciate it. It's almost like you need tough times to be able to properly appreciate the good ones. Amen to that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkPrincess Posted January 27, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 See if you guys can get your head around this, because i sure cant. Nor can the hospital. I had the baby removed, yeah? Via operation. So the hormone was going up but the doctors still couldnt understand why. Had my scan today and guess what? Everything is still there!!! The Baby sac is growing at a good rate, the hormone is growing at a good rate, but they cant see a baby. But all this shouldnt be there. So they wanted me to have the operation again... to which I have refused. They have now given me and my body 2 weeks to miscarry. If i dont miscarry then I have to go back for operation. It's so hard to get my head around. It's mind boggling - So I am still pregnant - Just Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cruiser647 Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 That's not good PP. I don't know what to suggest. I'd be inclined to have the operation again, so save the giref and potential harm having the baby sac in you for another 2 weeks (or until the body realises there is nothing there). You will be going through hell for those 2 weeks. Your daughter won't understand why you might not be picking her up etc etc. Hubby will understand, but it will put a great strain on you and him. It will take a while for your hormones to adjust to the missing baby - that is why they are still rising. I don't know! but I hope that helps. (even just a little bit) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkPrincess Posted January 27, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 My little one would never suffer, as I would still pick her up. She is my angel and nothing will affect her - she doesnt need to see my pain Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nordberg Posted January 27, 2009 Report Share Posted January 27, 2009 So you had a D&C? And now the scan shows the sack? Sounds like the D&C wasn't as successful as it might have been. Re hormones, they will most likely continue as if you were still pregnant for a couple of weeks which is not nice for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkPrincess Posted January 28, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Yes, basically. So now I am still pregnant, hormones going up, all the symptoms of a pregnancy - mornign sickness being teh worst and all day long - yet i am going through all this for nothing. Why is life so cruel? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nordberg Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 Yes, basically.So now I am still pregnant, hormones going up, all the symptoms of a pregnancy - mornign sickness being teh worst and all day long - yet i am going through all this for nothing. Why is life so cruel? This is exactly what we went through You have my genuine sympathies....it is very cruel :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkPrincess Posted February 1, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 1, 2009 Still havent miscarried yet! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nordberg Posted February 1, 2009 Report Share Posted February 1, 2009 Still havent miscarried yet! We gave up after 2 weeks and had the d&c Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shark_90 Posted February 1, 2009 Report Share Posted February 1, 2009 Thanks for the update! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkPrincess Posted April 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 24, 2009 Some good news - i am pregnant again - my blood hs been tested every 2 days nd increasing at a very high rate - keep tripling rather than doubling so i am hoping it maybe twins :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m4ttm4son Posted April 24, 2009 Report Share Posted April 24, 2009 Congrats Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkPrincess Posted April 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 24, 2009 Thanks Chick :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cruiser647 Posted April 24, 2009 Report Share Posted April 24, 2009 Ace news Missy! Hope all goes well this time. Take it easy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkPrincess Posted April 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 24, 2009 I am I am not getting stressed - my tutor cant get to me as I just walk out of class now as my baby is more important that her moaning I am not working under cars no more - taking it easy but wit a lot of healthy eating and walking :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted April 24, 2009 Report Share Posted April 24, 2009 Good luck!!. and fingers crossed that it all goes well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garcon magnifique Posted April 24, 2009 Report Share Posted April 24, 2009 Congratulations and fingers crossed! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chick Posted April 24, 2009 Report Share Posted April 24, 2009 Best wishes PP, hope all goes trouble-free ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dukeboy749r Posted April 24, 2009 Report Share Posted April 24, 2009 Top news, fingers crossed for you for the safe and happy arrival of maybe two PPs!! Been a positive week all round! Best wishes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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