Riz Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 I fancy a hairdresser but i dont know if she is intrested in me or if she is actually single? What route should i take without looking like a prat? im lacking confidence and am also shy BUT she has cut my hair twice and i can chat to her when its a normal conversation... HELP! Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ritey Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 [ QUOTE ] Hello, can I buy you a coffee / (insert any other type of drink here) sometime [/ QUOTE ] If the response is yeah that will be nice, things have progressed. If she says yeah, but i'll have to get a babysiter, or yeah but i'm not sure my boyfriend / husband would appreciate it much you know exactly where you stand without feeling vunrable Any good ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted August 20, 2004 Author Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] Hello, can I buy you a coffee / (insert any other type of drink here) sometime [/ QUOTE ] If the response is yeah that will be nice, things have progressed. If she says yeah, but i'll have to get a babysiter, or yeah but i'm not sure my boyfriend / husband would appreciate it much you know exactly where you stand without feeling vunrable Any good ? [/ QUOTE ] Its good but shes always working cutting hair..... i know for a fact once i get talking to her i`ll be ok but its that initial push i need..... since my hair is still short i can really go back so soon Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ritey Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 Or you could use, [ QUOTE ] Have I shown you my car ..... [/ QUOTE ] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted August 20, 2004 Author Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 [ QUOTE ] Or you could use, [ QUOTE ] Have I shown you my car ..... [/ QUOTE ] [/ QUOTE ] as cheesy as that may sound it might work..... ok gotto wash and polish it a.s.a.p! mmmmm i will try harder to do something... got to! Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bazza_g Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 if she's a hairdresser then she should be able to chat for england ! if you want to find out her current situation and I'm assuming you've checked to make sure no wedding ring on left hand ? Ask about her holiday this year - its always a give away, she'll either say she's had a lovley time with the love of her life or say she's been on a drunken debauched girlie week in Ayia Nappa !! If she says the drunken girlie week, you can always double check by asking what her boyfriend thought of her girlie hol hopefully she'll say no boyfriend then now you've established the target is legit - move to stage 2.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPLiiX Posted August 21, 2004 Report Share Posted August 21, 2004 Bazza G is right!!!! I always ask - or rather I used to ask when I was single "how is your love life?" then you get the straight answer!!! and then take it from there.... Just aske them what are you doing at the weekend? and if they are "not doing much" say there is a TSN meet would you like to come??? LOL I would ask if she wanted to go for a drink (not after work oas they feel a bit messy and hairy after work!!!) A meal is a bit strong for a start!!! and if they say no well aske them if they want to go for a meal. Tread carefully as you do not want to get a severe knockback and keep going to the same hairdresser.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulboy Posted August 21, 2004 Report Share Posted August 21, 2004 I would sit down and when she does the: 'what do you want doing' bit, I would say *big cheeky smile*: 'I dont actually need a haircut, I only come in here to see you and just wanted to know if you will marry me' - then take it from there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Viraje Posted August 21, 2004 Report Share Posted August 21, 2004 Ah, the subtle approach. I'm liking your style... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted August 21, 2004 Author Report Share Posted August 21, 2004 Thats it! im going to get my hair cut again nextweek..... its grown alittle.... Not done anything today though....... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulboy Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Good lad Riz. Consider your current position. You're not going out with her now. Whats the worst that can happen? she says 'no' and nothings changed. But she may say yes! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AquilaEagle Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 I gotta know how this goes, sounds like fun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPLiiX Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Have you not asked her out yet??? Oooops it's a Sunday.... and they do not work on Mondays do they?? So standby here on Tuesday!!! LOL Hope it's not a and more like a You will be fine RIZ32! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted August 22, 2004 Author Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Mmmm she works all week usually and yes we dont work sundays All the advice as always it top notch but its easier said than done..... I`m going to try the holiday route... ask her if shes been on holiday yet.... and then work some information out of her... i want to definately know if shes single or not by the end of this coming week. If shes single i`ll have some mystry flowers delivered to her.... what do you think... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulboy Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Spot on Riz. Everyone has their own way to suit their personality and if thats how you feel comfortable just do it. My way suits me cos im a cheeky ba5tard - otherwise it wouldn't work. Nothing to lose Riz. If she says no - so feckin what, ask the next one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollox Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 [ QUOTE ] Mmmm she works all week usually and yes we dont work sundays All the advice as always it top notch but its easier said than done..... I`m going to try the holiday route... ask her if shes been on holiday yet.... and then work some information out of her... i want to definately know if shes single or not by the end of this coming week. If shes single i`ll have some mystry flowers delivered to her.... what do you think... Riz [/ QUOTE ] Mystery flowers? Ridiculous! How's she going to know they're from YOU? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPLiiX Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 I would have found out if she was single/married what she did on holiday where who with all on the first haircut - but that's just me! Do not send a bunch of flowers!!!!!!!!!!! JUST A SINGLE RED ROSE does the trick! and cheaper too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted August 23, 2004 Author Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 She wasnt working today... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CARACTERE 007 Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 if she's a hairdresser...tell her you've got an mgf or a suzuki vitara wideboy!!...thats it, hook line and err curler! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scotty Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 [**stereotype alert**] Ask her how her TT's running. [/**stereotype alert**] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted August 24, 2004 Author Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 [ QUOTE ] [**stereotype alert**] Ask her how her TT's running. [/**stereotype alert**] [/ QUOTE ] mmmmmm she wasnt working today either.... maybe shes gone on holiday with her b/f..... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulboy Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 Ask her to give you a Brazilian Riz? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPLiiX Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 Go for it tomorrow!!! Good luck! I will be standing by! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rich Posted September 7, 2004 Report Share Posted September 7, 2004 No Update??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted September 7, 2004 Author Report Share Posted September 7, 2004 Ermmm nope cos when i went there was too many of her mates around... but ive given up now... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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