AZURES3 Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 Guys Well after a split with my wife in April then a 2 month relationship with a single mum who lives 220 miles away. I have met a lovely single woman who lives 20 miles from me. She doesnt have kids and hasnt been married, not that makes any difference but life seems easy and good and its the first woman I have been out with that is older than me. She is 36 and I am 35 but all other partners have been between 3 & 10 years younger So lets see how things go but we are planning a trip to the Maldives in the middle of November, she works for a big travle firm and get the accomdation for cost price and I have enough airmiles for free flights AZ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brabus Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 Brilliant, that's good news! All the best, hope things work out for you bud Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamD Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 Nice one, hope it all works out! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kite Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 AZ what a lucky touch, you meet a nice lady and get a free holiday. good luck with the new relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ian_m Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 Good luck mate!! One relationship starts for you, as one ends for me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AZURES3 Posted September 11, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Good luck mate!! One relationship starts for you, as one ends for me [/ QUOTE ] Thanks and sorry to hear that, chin up though there are plenty of lovely women out there. BTW Blimey older women know what they want AZ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ian_m Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 I am sure there are, but i dont want any others Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brabus Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 Sorry to hear it - what happened? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AZURES3 Posted September 11, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 [ QUOTE ] I am sure there are, but i dont want any others [/ QUOTE ] I hear you and can only sympathise after what I have been through this year but trust I really do know what you mean. Good luck and chin up AZ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ian_m Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 to be honest it hurts too much to explain at the moment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 Time is the healer, Ian. You WILL get over it and move on and then wonder what why it ever hurt! Be careful of any rebounds though . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 AZ > You sound very happy . Take it steady and don't rush....ENJOY! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lottiefox Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 [ QUOTE ] AZ > You sound very happy . Take it steady and don't rush....ENJOY! [/ QUOTE ] Indeed - after the year you've had just relax and have some fun - DON'T JUMP IN!!!! Holiday is quite a big step in some ways but as long as you both see things the same way it will be cool. And Yes, older women do know what they want! But we are also fussier, more comfortable with ourselves and expect high standards!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 Lottie - You been to Grand Canyon recently? (re your new avatar) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ian_m Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 I have!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AZURES3 Posted September 11, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 [ QUOTE ] And Yes, older women do know what they want! But we are also fussier, more comfortable with ourselves and expect high standards!! [/ QUOTE ] Indeed a refreshing change to younger women. AZ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lottiefox Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Lottie - You been to Grand Canyon recently? (re your new avatar) [/ QUOTE ] Robin I know the turtle is fast but.......!! I am going in October - Grand Canyon, Zion National Park and a little bit of Las Vegas! On an explorer type holiday so I am being intrepid. Bit like the barge! Sorry AZ - I am hijacking your happy news there! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calm Chris Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 Grand Canyon, Ian , wasn't the reason for the split then Nice one AZ, chill, be yourself and stop going on about older woman (FFS- she's ONLY a whole school year older than you). She's not old, just clued up and know what she wants. That's just about the best person you could met, be honest and treat her like a mate (well not quite) and hopefully you guys will have a ball Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ian_m Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 No Chri5, that wasnt the reason I went to the Grand Canyon as part of my crappy trip to Vegas Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabster Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 AS. I am in the same boat realtionship is on the rocks we both know it but dont want to be the one to terminate it hence loads of rows and general misunderstanding. It hurts dude..........luckly no kids or marrage and we both have our own places. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ian_m Posted September 11, 2006 Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 Sorry to hear it Gabster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted September 12, 2006 Report Share Posted September 12, 2006 I'm obviously sorry to hear that Gabster, but unless you think it's just a tricky patch you are both going through and things can improve, it's much better to cut out and stop the hassle etc. If neither of you want to terminate the relationship, it could be either: A) - You each have strong feelings for each other and want to hang on in there for calmer waters. B) - Neither of you wants to bite the bullet and thinks they would hurt the other. C) - Neither of you are the sort of person to take such actions easily (unlike me you just chops a relationship very instantly! Very black and white!) Do you talk to each other about your difficulties with one another? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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