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It's lovely seeing you happier again and that you are being you, not someone you were supposed to be. The real you is far better BTW.

I'm glad that you have started getting back in touch with your other mates, and seeing the family more. You little niece is ace :D

You know me and Brett are always here for you and you are welcome here any time :D I like going shopping lol.

Shame about the Archery, I still think you should keep going as you never know who might join ;) Either that or take your luck with who i might find for you ha ha ha.

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I'm thinking you lot hang about with the wrong type of females ....... :rolleyes:

You might be correct in that observation, however it is just a simple fact, that women always want what other women have, if they are under the impression that it is better than what they have currently got.

Many moons ago I was in a steady relationship with a rather nice respectable young lady, who had a myriad of freinds, who took great pleasure in slagging me off, constantly to my then girl freind, with "you can do better than him" comments etc, the thing was, when I called time on the relationship,due to my work commitmets and being apart for long periods of time, the said freinds were ringing me day and night asking if I wanted a date FFS!

I do not consider the women in question as being under any definition of being "The wrong type of females" they were just being females, being females.....

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Just read your update post collease.......................and then went and read your 1st post on the thread.

Sounds like you are happier than you have been in years. And with more friends!

Perhaps you should have split a while ago, or were never that compatible?

Anyway, whatever. Good on ya

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Been thinking the same thing as looking back on it the last two years of the relationship were spent more as friends that argued than as a couple. The fact is im happy now being me and not having to change who I am to suit someone else. I think triathalons although looking like fun would cause me to die literally lol.

Need to get some fitness back so might see if my friends want to start climbing again. Think it could be a laugh and it would mean camping which is always fun. Not sure though as football is a good one too and I already play during the week on and off.

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You said you used to love climbing so I think that would be great if you started that again. We also have a huge climbing wall at our local leisure centre so you could take me with you. Me + RockClimbing = EPIC FAIL so maybe not LMAO.

You love football so you best start playing it more otherwise ill stop phoning :P

Camping, well we will see if you still enjoy it after next month when we are all camping at PV!

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Right thought i woudl update this and let you all know what has happened recently. I have moved to Stratford-Upon-Avon and am working at Listers VW there. After the last post i decided i needed to get away from everything and start fresh.

I am the happiest i have ever been now with my best mate and her family near by as well as having to try and make new friends. I like the company and so far all is going well although it has only been 2 days lol. Now i just need the love of a woman wont say good as beggers cant be choosers :) and i will be sorted. Hope anyone that reads this will see that a bit of time some realisation that you are not alone and support from your best friends will mean everything will turn out fine.

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Right thought i woudl update this and let you all know what has happened recently. I have moved to Stratford-Upon-Avon and am working at Listers VW there. After the last post i decided i needed to get away from everything and start fresh.

I am the happiest i have ever been now with my best mate and her family near by as well as having to try and make new friends. I like the company and so far all is going well although it has only been 2 days lol. Now i just need the love of a woman wont say good as beggers cant be choosers :) and i will be sorted. Hope anyone that reads this will see that a bit of time some realisation that you are not alone and support from your best friends will mean everything will turn out fine.

Good move.

Got to try these things.

Good luck!

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Eh? You mean L? Seriously? So sorry mate :( I thought she was a keeper, beautiful girl.

Yeah she's a beautiful, lovely girl, and I thought she was a keeper, 4 years on we decided we're not cut out for the long term together +++

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