beez Posted July 14, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 14, 2005 What do you mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted July 14, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 14, 2005 Just spent 40 mins on the phone talking to her about God knows what. The kind of God knows what that gets you from talking about swimming to people with lisps in about 5 minutes. Anyway: She's giving me a text tomorrow on her lunch break and we may well meet up for lunch and have a bit of a chat I hope we do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AudiPartner Posted July 15, 2005 Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 [ QUOTE ] Just spent 40 mins on the phone talking to her about God [/ QUOTE ] Didn't I just read that you said you were "crap at getting to know people"? Yeah right, you the man!! Still those 40 minute telephone conversations can only be a good thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted July 15, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 I do hope so. You've quoted me to make it seem like we were having a good old religious chat...was that intentional? And was 'yeah right, you the man!!' sarcastic? 'cos I really am crap at it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AudiPartner Posted July 15, 2005 Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Busted. I was indeed suggesting that talking to her about God for 40 minutes wasn't perhaps the "coolest" of approaches. Just pullin' your plonker though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted July 15, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Don't pull on that! I might need it one of these days! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AudiPartner Posted July 15, 2005 Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 [ QUOTE ] I might need it one of these days! [/ QUOTE ] Yeah, not if you keep talking to girls about God you won't! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted July 15, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 I'll have you know my ex was VERY religious. So much so that her rantings and preachings p*ssed me off and I told her to shut up and she left me. hahahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AudiPartner Posted July 15, 2005 Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted July 15, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 I found it quite funny as well! Although I do miss the sex...not bad for a religious bird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted July 15, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Damn. Apparently I'm coming on too strongly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FiftyPence Posted July 15, 2005 Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 uhoh who said that?? she told you herself?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollox Posted July 15, 2005 Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Were you grinding against the steering wheel as you drove her home? She's probably just fecking you around and enjoying it. If you fancy someone you're not going to complain about how strongly they're coming onto you - you just want them to come on to you. So to speak of course. Move on! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted July 15, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 [ QUOTE ] uhoh who said that?? she told you herself?? [/ QUOTE ] Well I kind of thought I was myself, so I asked her if I'm coming on a bit too strong and she said 'you do seem a bit full on' So I think I'll start relaxing a bit and all that. And Mollox, I see where you're coming from. But no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AudiPartner Posted July 15, 2005 Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] uhoh who said that?? she told you herself?? [/ QUOTE ] so I asked her if I'm coming on a bit too strong [/ QUOTE ] I wouldn't start throwing questions around like that. A, you could be diggin' your own grave, and B, you may come across a little insecure/lacking confidence. Ditto to the above though, nowt wrong in coming on strong. She either wants it or she doesn't, and if she wants it then you might as well come on strong. I mean, theres no point beating about the bush (you should be so lucky Beez!) . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted July 15, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Why's this in Agony Aunt now? I'm not in pain!! You're all blokes. And blokes know nothing about women. My girly pal is explaining how the ladies like to spend time making sure you're not gonna be just in and then straight out (except, obviously the slags) And given the situation, she could well be just summing up whether her brother and I aren't just messing her about (which we're not!) etc. And apparently women prefer the chase, so if you start acting like you couldn't care less they're more likely to want you apparently! Sounds far too for me to comprehend, but if that's what I gotta do.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calm Chris Posted July 15, 2005 Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Be mean keep THEM keen!! That's an old, but rather wise saying. Funny old world, show a girl show heart and that you care and they will run a mile (unless they are looking for you as the manager of the baby factory). Be aloof, unrealiable, stone hearted and they will do the chasing. Now I know why I'm married! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted July 15, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Yeah, I've always noticed the pr*cks seem to get the lovely ladies. Angers me somewhat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted July 15, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Oh yeah dude I love it when she says 'give me a call if you want.....not that I'm hinting or anything' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FiftyPence Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 I dont get your last comment Beez, can you elaborate a little more please. Am i correct in assuming that you have spoken to her recently and she said those words to you so you feel like things are going well between the two of you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted July 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 24, 2005 Yeah that's correct. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FiftyPence Posted July 24, 2005 Report Share Posted July 24, 2005 Good lad, so its been like 3 weeks have you kissed her yet or held her hand or had a hug. Youre taking things at a snails pace Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted July 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 24, 2005 None of the above. Things are indeed going slow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FiftyPence Posted July 24, 2005 Report Share Posted July 24, 2005 too slow id say, get in there or are you still having thought of your ex-boyfriend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beez Posted July 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 24, 2005 I'm not thinking of him at all (lol) It's going slow because that's the pace she wants to take it. As we know I'll be living in Leeds in approx 5 weeks, so she's thinking about whether it'll work, whether she likes me enough, etc etc etc, and of course, building up a trust in me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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