Brabus Posted December 15, 2006 Report Share Posted December 15, 2006 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] Done..... right well its safe to say shes not intrested.... phew and wonderful end to the thread..... Riz [/ QUOTE ] Well, at least you know. Onwards and upwards Riz, it will come along when you're not looking!! [/ QUOTE ] ....Exactly !! Stop looking so hard and having such set expectations and something might just happen. Be your bright and breezy self and let them come to you. My advice is NOT to sink into alcoholic stupor in some Eastern European corner where you can be more easily taken advantage of. Or, indeed, any corner. [/ QUOTE ] Yep, follow RR's advice and stay single! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted December 15, 2006 Report Share Posted December 15, 2006 Guys that appear to be desperate for a girl aren't usually attractive - Ask any girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brabus Posted December 15, 2006 Report Share Posted December 15, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Guys that appear to be desperate for a girl aren't usually attractive - Ask any girl. [/ QUOTE ] Riz? Could you advise on the above please? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris_B Posted December 15, 2006 Report Share Posted December 15, 2006 [ QUOTE ] My advice is NOT to sink into alcoholic stupor in some Eastern European corner where you can be more easily taken advantage of. Or, indeed, any corner. [/ QUOTE ] Riz needs to be taken advantage of by some uber-hot Czech Chicks; it will help get his hormone levels down to the point where he's properly distinguishing between short-term horny and long-term relationship. Where better to get past his shyness and inability to give some smooth chat to some lovely ladies, and get some proper practice in? The vodka redbull is an essential part of the equation; you don't get drunk and fall over/asleep, but you get drunk enough to not have any inhibitions and let your inner self out, but you're still the life and soul of the evening, not a mumbling, shambling wreck. That comes the next evening when you finally sober up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedRobin Posted December 15, 2006 Report Share Posted December 15, 2006 ....Very good point, Chris! . I used to drink, so I should know that! It's been a loooong time! You're right, Chris. I had a Russian chick trying to scam me recently. I guess that by their standards, we are rich. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted December 15, 2006 Author Report Share Posted December 15, 2006 Woah.. im ok folks, just been out with a lady this afternoon to make sense of the call I made this morning.... and in all honesty I still dont have a definate NO, im not intrested or Yes, im intrested response of Holly...... been told shes playing hard to get. Personally fooook that..... let her do what she wants, if she wants to get to know me then she has both my mobile numbers and cant get intouch via email at work. Women love attention.... so i`ll let her have her fun.... she aint getting no attention of me. Pah. Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Posted December 16, 2006 Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 Yeah, that'll work... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brabus Posted December 16, 2006 Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Yeah, that'll work... [/ QUOTE ] Agreed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saab Posted December 16, 2006 Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 You're not happy that's she's playing hard to get - yet you've decided that the best way to get to know her is to do exactly the same thing. I would question the effectiveness of this strategy. Why not tell her you're gay - then she won't feel threatened by you - she'll take you shopping - once you've got to know her you can confess that after spending time with her you're having doubts about your sexuality and you think you might be straight. She'll be putty in your hands - it cannot fail. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted December 16, 2006 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 [ QUOTE ] You're not happy that's she's playing hard to get - yet you've decided that the best way to get to know her is to do exactly the same thing. I would question the effectiveness of this strategy. Why not tell her you're gay - then she won't feel threatened by you - she'll take you shopping - once you've got to know her you can confess that after spending time with her you're having doubts about your sexuality and you think you might be straight. She'll be putty in your hands - it cannot fail. [/ QUOTE ]Yes I get what your saying, but she knows I like her, maybe she has just brushed me off in a subtle way rather telling me shes not intrested. I do like her but nothing serious as I havent got to know her yet. She works in a totally different department and im not really in the office much, so our times clash even to have a quick chat in the cantine...... perhaps its just best to move on........ .... and chat up the new temp receptionist. Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saab Posted December 16, 2006 Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 [ QUOTE ] perhaps its just best to move on........ .... and chat up the new temp receptionist. [/ QUOTE ] Good lad - first sensible suggestion you've made. And if this Holly is really interested just watch her come running when she hears you've turned your attention to someone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted December 16, 2006 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] perhaps its just best to move on........ .... and chat up the new temp receptionist. [/ QUOTE ] Good lad - first sensible suggestion you've made. And if this Holly is really interested just watch her come running when she hears you've turned your attention to someone else. [/ QUOTE ]Yep.... I "MUST" think wiser when it comes to women, otherwise i`ll get walked over like the past..... im trying folks.... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Posted December 16, 2006 Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 [ QUOTE ] walked over like the past..... im trying folks.... Riz [/ QUOTE ] You sure are... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soulboy Posted December 17, 2006 Report Share Posted December 17, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Personally fooook that..... let her do what she wants, if she wants to get to know me then she has both my mobile numbers and cant get intouch via email at work. [/ QUOTE ] Good on you Riz - thats more like it! Millions of other fish in the sea Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted December 17, 2006 Author Report Share Posted December 17, 2006 As ive done in the past, I usually go into a turtle mode, just hide at home and pretend to deal with it feeling sorry for myself. But I know that im a nice guy I just went out with my female friend after I spoke to Holly, had a drink in a pub and chat about bf`s and gf`s blah blah blah..... which wasnt what I would usually do in the past. She gave me some good advice and was just there....... shes still confident that Holly is playing hard to get as most women do this..... well thats what she would do anyways. lol. Ooooooo out with the lads next thursday..... Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollox Posted December 17, 2006 Report Share Posted December 17, 2006 My take is that she isn't playing hard to ger, more that you haven't shown or given her anything to be interested in you about. At this point in time she doesn't think you are a candidate because you haven't convinced her. Telling her you're shy isn't the way forward. Its confidence she wants to see - confidence in yourself and confidence that if she "chooses you" you're going to have a confident and dynamic relationship. Its all abour your brand Riz. Market yourself (subtly) and make her want Riz ™. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatcat Posted December 17, 2006 Report Share Posted December 17, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Ooooooo out with the lads next thursday..... Riz [/ QUOTE ] Riz, don't take this too personally, but are you abit queer Seems you have much greater success with the boys than any girl in Sheffield / north of England. Just a thought. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CabGirl Posted December 17, 2006 Report Share Posted December 17, 2006 Pot, kettle, title change! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mollox Posted December 17, 2006 Report Share Posted December 17, 2006 CG we're going to have words soon Riz changed the bloody title, I hit reply and by the time you got your dig in I'd changed 3 of the 4 erroneous titles! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted December 17, 2006 Author Report Share Posted December 17, 2006 Mmmmmmm been viewing the posts with my beedy eye...... think i`ll say nothing for awhile regarding her. Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bazza_g Posted December 17, 2006 Report Share Posted December 17, 2006 [ QUOTE ] Mmmmmmm been viewing the posts with my beedy eye...... [/ QUOTE ] beedy eyes are not attractive to the ladies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riz Posted December 17, 2006 Author Report Share Posted December 17, 2006 [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] Mmmmmmm been viewing the posts with my beedy eye...... [/ QUOTE ] beedy eyes are not attractive to the ladies [/ QUOTE ]Depends which eye I was talking about. Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CabGirl Posted December 17, 2006 Report Share Posted December 17, 2006 Riz! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Riz Posted December 17, 2006 Author Report Share Posted December 17, 2006 Ouch... sorry folks ermmmm Riz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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