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Riz. Don't do it. Not at work.

[/ QUOTE ]Mmmmmm naaa she doesnt work my department.... mmmmm I will let u all know tomorrow...

Basically she knows of me and has asked about my from another lady who knows me pretty well..... problem is she hasnt met me yet.

We have emailed each other now and again and there has been some cheeky remarks/comments back and forth shocked.gif

Will find out tomorrow if she blows me off!

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Will find out tomorrow if she blows me off!

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feck me Riz that will be fast work!! EEK2.GIFEEK2.GIFEEK2.GIFtongue.gif

[/ QUOTE ]Nooooo I meant.. oh bugger... that sounded wrong shocked.gifsmashfreakB.gif

I meant that she will fob me off.... i.e. says no that im pig ugly and not good enough for her...

Riz UHOH7.GIF

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Riz - let me give you a woman's view........ wink.gif

Just go and chat with this person at work as if she was completely one other person in the workplace. Don't charge ahead in your own mind to asking her out, going on a date and anything else. It seems to me that sometimes you spot a woman you like and you've virtually booked the wedding and had your first kids!! Don't imagine in your own head that you aren't anything special or else she will think that, as will everyone else. You have as much to offer her or anyone else as the rest of the world, you just have no idea if she is anything more than a work colleague. And you won't know that for ages!! Chat with her, be casual as Mollox suggests, ask her over the kettle what her weekend was like and LISTEN to her replies!! Ask her about things on the telly, films in the cinema, anything to strike up some conversation. There is no poing trying anything else until you know if you can even talk to each other - where would it go otherwise? confused.gif The worse thing you can do is to build this up to a big thing - in your mind or in action - just go with the flow and see if you and she can be friends to start with. From friendship grows many other things sometimes.....or if it doesn't, friends are just great to have in the world. 169144-ok.gif

Bon chance. grin.gif

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Riz - let me give you a woman's view........ wink.gif

Just go and chat with this person at work as if she was completely one other person in the workplace. Don't charge ahead in your own mind to asking her out, going on a date and anything else. It seems to me that sometimes you spot a woman you like and you've virtually booked the wedding and had your first kids!!

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Are you suggesting that Riz's patented chat up line of Hi, I'm riz. Will you marry me? is in fact not the way forward there..? UHOH7.GIF

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I thought we had already worked on Riz'z chat up line in the past confused.gif

Anyway Riz, go for broke/bust - after all, we are not talking marriage here are we........... crazy.gif

On a more personal level me ol' mucker, are you a virgin... just might have a bearing on why you lack confidence with the girls.

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Women like men who care 123576-assfeck.gif

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Jeeeze.... no im not still a virgin smashfreakB.gif and im quite good in that department, one thing I do have great confidence in.

Anyways... she wasnt in so I didnt get to meet her... I am now mostly out of the office until the xmas party..... I dont want to email her or try and chat to her on the phone, she works in a call centre with alot of other people about, If I rang her the conversation would probably be rushed as customers would be waiting on the phone etc....

Im still abit nervous about meeting her.... (shy)

So your all right in saying I must meet her in person and just have a general convo.... problem now is that I dont know how to do this, me being out of the office and her being in the job role that she is.... so it looks like its down to the xmas party......

Riz confused.gif

p.s. on a side note, I got the promotion at work which will mean I will migrate from being on the road alot to moving into my office.... no more staying away... woooohooooo this will obviously help me build a local social life. 169144-ok.gif

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So your all right in saying I must meet her in person and just have a general convo.... problem now is that I dont know how to do this...

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Just find a way of bumping in to her and say...

"Hi, I'm Riz, you look nice today..." grin.gif

Or something similar. smashfreakB.gif

[/ QUOTE ]But I cant just bump into her.... thats the problem... if im not in the office... just wont happen, she has lunch in the cantine which was probably my best bet... mmmmmm the xmas party is on the 13th......

What shall I wear mmmmmmm.

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Jeeezzzz, I've missed this thread as well, just caught the tail end of it.

Riz, wear what the feck ya like for GOD SAKE!!! And get ya face into as much as possible, male or female, but please this thread just END???

[/ QUOTE ]Nope this thread will go on and on.... jump.gif

Riz FIREdevil.gif

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